“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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mixed signals. is she interested or not?

duke104

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This girl keeps giving me mixed signals. For the most part there's a low interest level, but whenever I tell her that I'm hanging out with another girl she gets all weird and asks me a bunch of questions about her like who is she, what are you 2 gonna do, are you gonna hang out with her again, etc. Kinda sounds like she gets jealous but I can't tell...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Have you made a move on this girl (asked her out? sex? kissed?)??

Otherwise it's pointless to sit around analyzing imaginary signs from her. Girls get jealous for stupid reasons. Sometimes it's because they want to bang you...and a lot of the time it's just because they don't want another girl stealing the attention you're giving them.
 

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You know what you have to do to find out if she is interested or not.
 

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duke104 said:
This girl keeps giving me mixed signals. For the most part there's a low interest level, but whenever I tell her that I'm hanging out with another girl she gets all weird and asks me a bunch of questions about her like who is she, what are you 2 gonna do, are you gonna hang out with her again, etc. Kinda sounds like she gets jealous but I can't tell...
Have you been flirting with her? Have you EVER made it show that you, as a man, are interested in her as a woman?

I don't mean to toot my own horn, but read this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=176631

Basically....stop sitting around trying to find signs of whether or not she is interested. YOU take the initiative and find out by going for what you want. If you wanna know, invite her to do something with you. Make a move. Be a man and get what you want.
 

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honestly im guilty of all this "was that an ioi?" stuff but these guys are right. the only way is to make a move.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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