"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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mixed signals. is she interested or not?

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This girl keeps giving me mixed signals. For the most part there's a low interest level, but whenever I tell her that I'm hanging out with another girl she gets all weird and asks me a bunch of questions about her like who is she, what are you 2 gonna do, are you gonna hang out with her again, etc. Kinda sounds like she gets jealous but I can't tell...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Have you made a move on this girl (asked her out? sex? kissed?)??

Otherwise it's pointless to sit around analyzing imaginary signs from her. Girls get jealous for stupid reasons. Sometimes it's because they want to bang you...and a lot of the time it's just because they don't want another girl stealing the attention you're giving them.
 
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You know what you have to do to find out if she is interested or not.
 
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duke104 said:
This girl keeps giving me mixed signals. For the most part there's a low interest level, but whenever I tell her that I'm hanging out with another girl she gets all weird and asks me a bunch of questions about her like who is she, what are you 2 gonna do, are you gonna hang out with her again, etc. Kinda sounds like she gets jealous but I can't tell...
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Have you been flirting with her? Have you EVER made it show that you, as a man, are interested in her as a woman?

I don't mean to toot my own horn, but read this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=176631

Basically....stop sitting around trying to find signs of whether or not she is interested. YOU take the initiative and find out by going for what you want. If you wanna know, invite her to do something with you. Make a move. Be a man and get what you want.
 
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honestly im guilty of all this "was that an ioi?" stuff but these guys are right. the only way is to make a move.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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