"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mixed signals. is she interested or not?

duke104

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This girl keeps giving me mixed signals. For the most part there's a low interest level, but whenever I tell her that I'm hanging out with another girl she gets all weird and asks me a bunch of questions about her like who is she, what are you 2 gonna do, are you gonna hang out with her again, etc. Kinda sounds like she gets jealous but I can't tell...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Iceberg

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Have you made a move on this girl (asked her out? sex? kissed?)??

Otherwise it's pointless to sit around analyzing imaginary signs from her. Girls get jealous for stupid reasons. Sometimes it's because they want to bang you...and a lot of the time it's just because they don't want another girl stealing the attention you're giving them.
 

Tiguere

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You know what you have to do to find out if she is interested or not.
 

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duke104 said:
This girl keeps giving me mixed signals. For the most part there's a low interest level, but whenever I tell her that I'm hanging out with another girl she gets all weird and asks me a bunch of questions about her like who is she, what are you 2 gonna do, are you gonna hang out with her again, etc. Kinda sounds like she gets jealous but I can't tell...
Have you been flirting with her? Have you EVER made it show that you, as a man, are interested in her as a woman?

I don't mean to toot my own horn, but read this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=176631

Basically....stop sitting around trying to find signs of whether or not she is interested. YOU take the initiative and find out by going for what you want. If you wanna know, invite her to do something with you. Make a move. Be a man and get what you want.
 

garruk

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honestly im guilty of all this "was that an ioi?" stuff but these guys are right. the only way is to make a move.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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