That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Of course they contradict me. They are at the top of the heap of the corruption that I reject. It is like saying to a police detective that he is wrong because the criminals contradict him.My personal experience in the industry and data published by the NIH and CDC, contradicts your assertions.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Florida is also ranked #2 is population (%) of old people (65+).![]()
Grim Milestone, Florida Surpasses 50,000 Deaths From COVID-19 Since Start Of Pandemic
More than one-fourth of those COVID-19 deaths occurred this summer as the state battled a fierce surge in infections fueled by the Delta variant.miami.cbslocal.com
I never understood the whole “I wanna move some place hotter when I’m older.”Florida is also ranked #2 is population (%) of old people (65+).
Florida has less taxes, and a lot of older people retire with a lot of money. That's usually the reason.I never understood the whole “I wanna move some place hotter when I’m older.”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Your thoughts?So the vaccinated numbers keep climbing and the fatalities and hospitalizations keep dropping. On the ground no one is admitting to being vaccinated - seems to turns folks into pariahs.
"To be a shill for vaccines is like being a walmart employee. You are told what to do when to do it, and have your soul sold to the devil." - Me."To be unvaccinated is like driving drunk. You've probably done it a couple of times and got away with it but you won't do it because the law doesn't allow it and it's very unresponsible towards other human beings." - Jürgen Klopp
I do think the climate is part of the reason seniors like to go there though. A lot of people like hot weather. I'm not one of them.Florida has less taxes, and a lot of older people retire with a lot of money. That's usually the reason.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
And, there are also the 'snow birds' who spend winter in Florida and summer 'up north'......and lose their Social Security check to Las Vegas and complain (with AARP's help) that the government doesn't give them enough to live onI do think the climate is part of the reason seniors like to go there though. A lot of people like hot weather. I'm not one of them.
Another thing to consider is if you live in a warm climate you save a lot of money on heating bills (which is usually more expensive than air conditioning).
I don't doubt this at all. It's like california, except not their government. If California was red, 100% most people would go live there, including Texans. Nice weather, good breeze, and I am 100% sure a red government would not mismanage the forest fires and water supply as their governance do.I do think the climate is part of the reason seniors like to go there though. A lot of people like hot weather. I'm not one of them.
Another thing to consider is if you live in a warm climate you save a lot of money on heating bills (which is usually more expensive than air conditioning).
Naw, they would not. Property in California is too expensive. It is a rich persons state. Florida is on the cheaper side. The only reason people even move to Texas is because they can’t afford the property in California. More rich people move into California than out of it.I don't doubt this at all. It's like california, except not their government. If California was red, 100% most people would go live there, including Texans. Nice weather, good breeze, and I am 100% sure a red government would not mismanage the forest fires and water supply as their governance do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.