jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
For all mature men, (write if single or married) and over the age of 25, assuming you work for part of the day and have free time after dinner or so, what do you typically do in the evenings and at nigh, on a daily basis?
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You’re a real mature man. Based on this forum description, your son Juan prime is from ?-24 yo. Then the game changes and Godspeed to they all.Having sex.
Using drugs.
Burning the midnight oil.
But then, I'm retired.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's a stretch to call anyone under the age of 35 mature.For all mature men, (write if single or married) and over the age of 25, assuming you work for part of the day and have free time after dinner or so, what do you typically do in the evenings and at nigh, on a daily basis?
Can you be Mature and still be addicted to drugs and casual sex?It's a stretch to call anyone under the age of 35 mature.
Not if those things cloud your judgement in key situationsCan you be Mature and still be addicted to drugs and casual sex?
Hey, some of us actually do have our lives in check.Can you be Mature and still be addicted to drugs and casual sex?
-Work on my business
-Watch documentaries or YouTube videos
-Play Games on my phone
-Read the bible (haven't done that in a while need to do so more)
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Let's consider a 32-40 year old childless woman living in a larger city with no kids. She's gotten out of a 2+ year long relationship, taken a few months to process her emotions, and she's thinking about dating again. What's her life like?Now imagine what a mature woman does in the evening when she's invisible to a lot of men and has no kids
According to the forum, a Mature Man is anyone over 25. You have to remember this PUA stuff is aimed at guys probably 17-24?It's a stretch to call anyone under the age of 35 mature.
The forum is wrong.According to the forum, a Mature Man is anyone over 25. You have to remember this PUA stuff is aimed at guys probably 17-24?
yes... for the majority of these women, other men can have them... I'm good. I mean, most men would have sex with a woman with trashbag on her head... but few of the "good" men will commit. still in demand... the town bicycle is still in demand for some men I guess... but does the town bicycle really have "options"? I really don't think so.The Manosphere likes to claim that women are past their prime around 30-35, but that isn't reality. Women 30 or 35+ have pussies that are still in demand.
That was one of the first things that caught my eye when I came here. I saw that a mature man was 25 and over, and I was like WTF?The forum is wrong.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.