jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
For all mature men, (write if single or married) and over the age of 25, assuming you work for part of the day and have free time after dinner or so, what do you typically do in the evenings and at nigh, on a daily basis?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You’re a real mature man. Based on this forum description, your son Juan prime is from ?-24 yo. Then the game changes and Godspeed to they all.Having sex.
Using drugs.
Burning the midnight oil.
But then, I'm retired.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's a stretch to call anyone under the age of 35 mature.For all mature men, (write if single or married) and over the age of 25, assuming you work for part of the day and have free time after dinner or so, what do you typically do in the evenings and at nigh, on a daily basis?
Can you be Mature and still be addicted to drugs and casual sex?It's a stretch to call anyone under the age of 35 mature.
Not if those things cloud your judgement in key situationsCan you be Mature and still be addicted to drugs and casual sex?
Hey, some of us actually do have our lives in check.Can you be Mature and still be addicted to drugs and casual sex?
-Work on my business
-Watch documentaries or YouTube videos
-Play Games on my phone
-Read the bible (haven't done that in a while need to do so more)
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Let's consider a 32-40 year old childless woman living in a larger city with no kids. She's gotten out of a 2+ year long relationship, taken a few months to process her emotions, and she's thinking about dating again. What's her life like?Now imagine what a mature woman does in the evening when she's invisible to a lot of men and has no kids
According to the forum, a Mature Man is anyone over 25. You have to remember this PUA stuff is aimed at guys probably 17-24?It's a stretch to call anyone under the age of 35 mature.
The forum is wrong.According to the forum, a Mature Man is anyone over 25. You have to remember this PUA stuff is aimed at guys probably 17-24?
yes... for the majority of these women, other men can have them... I'm good. I mean, most men would have sex with a woman with trashbag on her head... but few of the "good" men will commit. still in demand... the town bicycle is still in demand for some men I guess... but does the town bicycle really have "options"? I really don't think so.The Manosphere likes to claim that women are past their prime around 30-35, but that isn't reality. Women 30 or 35+ have pussies that are still in demand.
That was one of the first things that caught my eye when I came here. I saw that a mature man was 25 and over, and I was like WTF?The forum is wrong.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.