jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
For all mature men, (write if single or married) and over the age of 25, assuming you work for part of the day and have free time after dinner or so, what do you typically do in the evenings and at nigh, on a daily basis?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You’re a real mature man. Based on this forum description, your son Juan prime is from ?-24 yo. Then the game changes and Godspeed to they all.Having sex.
Using drugs.
Burning the midnight oil.
But then, I'm retired.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It's a stretch to call anyone under the age of 35 mature.For all mature men, (write if single or married) and over the age of 25, assuming you work for part of the day and have free time after dinner or so, what do you typically do in the evenings and at nigh, on a daily basis?
Can you be Mature and still be addicted to drugs and casual sex?It's a stretch to call anyone under the age of 35 mature.
Not if those things cloud your judgement in key situationsCan you be Mature and still be addicted to drugs and casual sex?
Hey, some of us actually do have our lives in check.Can you be Mature and still be addicted to drugs and casual sex?
-Work on my business
-Watch documentaries or YouTube videos
-Play Games on my phone
-Read the bible (haven't done that in a while need to do so more)
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Let's consider a 32-40 year old childless woman living in a larger city with no kids. She's gotten out of a 2+ year long relationship, taken a few months to process her emotions, and she's thinking about dating again. What's her life like?Now imagine what a mature woman does in the evening when she's invisible to a lot of men and has no kids
According to the forum, a Mature Man is anyone over 25. You have to remember this PUA stuff is aimed at guys probably 17-24?It's a stretch to call anyone under the age of 35 mature.
The forum is wrong.According to the forum, a Mature Man is anyone over 25. You have to remember this PUA stuff is aimed at guys probably 17-24?
yes... for the majority of these women, other men can have them... I'm good. I mean, most men would have sex with a woman with trashbag on her head... but few of the "good" men will commit. still in demand... the town bicycle is still in demand for some men I guess... but does the town bicycle really have "options"? I really don't think so.The Manosphere likes to claim that women are past their prime around 30-35, but that isn't reality. Women 30 or 35+ have pussies that are still in demand.
That was one of the first things that caught my eye when I came here. I saw that a mature man was 25 and over, and I was like WTF?The forum is wrong.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.