"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Matrix Warrior

EFFORT

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I ordered a book called Matrix Warrior by Jake Horsley.

I'm almost half way done with it. I recommend everyone read this book, its been a huge eye opener for me so far and paints a very clear picture of the matrix we live in and teaches how to get "unplugged" from it.

Take it how you want, but its a good read either way.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oOh Nasty

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Originally posted by flyinshark
Does it help you get more chicks?
If not, then this is irrelevant:)
if that's your mindset then...

you're really gonna get far in life buddy. :rolleyes:

/sarcasm off
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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flyinshark

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Hey, wow! I know life does not revolve around just getting chicks. I asked that question since the guy posted this thread in the Don Juan Discussion Forum, where the discussion should be about getting chicks. It was just my way of suggesting it gets moved to Anything Else.
 

oOh Nasty

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Originally posted by flyinshark
Hey, wow! I know life does not revolve around just getting chicks. I asked that question since the guy posted this thread in the Don Juan Discussion Forum, where the discussion should be about getting chicks. It was just my way of suggesting it gets moved to Anything Else.
ah, i understand now.

my apologies.
 

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hmm... looks interesting...

EFFORT: Could you perhaps elaborate a little more about the book, like give examples of things that made you "open your eye's" and "unplug yourself" etc?:rolleyes: ;)

Thanx...


Laterz...
 
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