"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Matrix Warrior

EFFORT

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I ordered a book called Matrix Warrior by Jake Horsley.

I'm almost half way done with it. I recommend everyone read this book, its been a huge eye opener for me so far and paints a very clear picture of the matrix we live in and teaches how to get "unplugged" from it.

Take it how you want, but its a good read either way.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oOh Nasty

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Originally posted by flyinshark
Does it help you get more chicks?
If not, then this is irrelevant:)
if that's your mindset then...

you're really gonna get far in life buddy. :rolleyes:

/sarcasm off
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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flyinshark

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Hey, wow! I know life does not revolve around just getting chicks. I asked that question since the guy posted this thread in the Don Juan Discussion Forum, where the discussion should be about getting chicks. It was just my way of suggesting it gets moved to Anything Else.
 

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Originally posted by flyinshark
Hey, wow! I know life does not revolve around just getting chicks. I asked that question since the guy posted this thread in the Don Juan Discussion Forum, where the discussion should be about getting chicks. It was just my way of suggesting it gets moved to Anything Else.
ah, i understand now.

my apologies.
 

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hmm... looks interesting...

EFFORT: Could you perhaps elaborate a little more about the book, like give examples of things that made you "open your eye's" and "unplug yourself" etc?:rolleyes: ;)

Thanx...


Laterz...
 
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