"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Matrix Warrior

EFFORT

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I ordered a book called Matrix Warrior by Jake Horsley.

I'm almost half way done with it. I recommend everyone read this book, its been a huge eye opener for me so far and paints a very clear picture of the matrix we live in and teaches how to get "unplugged" from it.

Take it how you want, but its a good read either way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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oOh Nasty

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Originally posted by flyinshark
Does it help you get more chicks?
If not, then this is irrelevant:)
if that's your mindset then...

you're really gonna get far in life buddy. :rolleyes:

/sarcasm off
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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flyinshark

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Hey, wow! I know life does not revolve around just getting chicks. I asked that question since the guy posted this thread in the Don Juan Discussion Forum, where the discussion should be about getting chicks. It was just my way of suggesting it gets moved to Anything Else.
 

oOh Nasty

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Originally posted by flyinshark
Hey, wow! I know life does not revolve around just getting chicks. I asked that question since the guy posted this thread in the Don Juan Discussion Forum, where the discussion should be about getting chicks. It was just my way of suggesting it gets moved to Anything Else.
ah, i understand now.

my apologies.
 

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hmm... looks interesting...

EFFORT: Could you perhaps elaborate a little more about the book, like give examples of things that made you "open your eye's" and "unplug yourself" etc?:rolleyes: ;)

Thanx...


Laterz...
 
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