"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Matrix Warrior

EFFORT

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I ordered a book called Matrix Warrior by Jake Horsley.

I'm almost half way done with it. I recommend everyone read this book, its been a huge eye opener for me so far and paints a very clear picture of the matrix we live in and teaches how to get "unplugged" from it.

Take it how you want, but its a good read either way.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oOh Nasty

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Originally posted by flyinshark
Does it help you get more chicks?
If not, then this is irrelevant:)
if that's your mindset then...

you're really gonna get far in life buddy. :rolleyes:

/sarcasm off
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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flyinshark

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Hey, wow! I know life does not revolve around just getting chicks. I asked that question since the guy posted this thread in the Don Juan Discussion Forum, where the discussion should be about getting chicks. It was just my way of suggesting it gets moved to Anything Else.
 

oOh Nasty

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Originally posted by flyinshark
Hey, wow! I know life does not revolve around just getting chicks. I asked that question since the guy posted this thread in the Don Juan Discussion Forum, where the discussion should be about getting chicks. It was just my way of suggesting it gets moved to Anything Else.
ah, i understand now.

my apologies.
 

Climax

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hmm... looks interesting...

EFFORT: Could you perhaps elaborate a little more about the book, like give examples of things that made you "open your eye's" and "unplug yourself" etc?:rolleyes: ;)

Thanx...


Laterz...
 
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