"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Matrix Warrior

EFFORT

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I ordered a book called Matrix Warrior by Jake Horsley.

I'm almost half way done with it. I recommend everyone read this book, its been a huge eye opener for me so far and paints a very clear picture of the matrix we live in and teaches how to get "unplugged" from it.

Take it how you want, but its a good read either way.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by flyinshark
Does it help you get more chicks?
If not, then this is irrelevant:)
if that's your mindset then...

you're really gonna get far in life buddy. :rolleyes:

/sarcasm off
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hey, wow! I know life does not revolve around just getting chicks. I asked that question since the guy posted this thread in the Don Juan Discussion Forum, where the discussion should be about getting chicks. It was just my way of suggesting it gets moved to Anything Else.
 

oOh Nasty

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Originally posted by flyinshark
Hey, wow! I know life does not revolve around just getting chicks. I asked that question since the guy posted this thread in the Don Juan Discussion Forum, where the discussion should be about getting chicks. It was just my way of suggesting it gets moved to Anything Else.
ah, i understand now.

my apologies.
 

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hmm... looks interesting...

EFFORT: Could you perhaps elaborate a little more about the book, like give examples of things that made you "open your eye's" and "unplug yourself" etc?:rolleyes: ;)

Thanx...


Laterz...
 
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