"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dave_Bellan88

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Hey guys,
I recently went on a date with a girl I met on a matrimonial website. The exp was not tht good & I couldn't keep up with her rejection tests. A day after the date we asked her parents if she was interested to which they said that she wanted to go on a second date with me.
I called her the next day but she didn't take my calls...she text me back saying that she was buzy & will call when shes free. I was pissed as she didn't reply till 4 days. Her dad called me on the 4th day but I didn't recieve his call. She is now calling me but I didn't respond. What to do now? I feel the urge to call her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marmel75

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Lmao!
 

mrgoodstuff

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Hey guys,
I recently went on a date with a girl I met on a matrimonial website. The exp was not tht good & I couldn't keep up with her rejection tests. A day after the date we asked her parents if she was interested to which they said that she wanted to go on a second date with me.
I called her the next day but she didn't take my calls...she text me back saying that she was buzy & will call when shes free. I was pissed as she didn't reply till 4 days. Her dad called me on the 4th day but I didn't recieve his call. She is now calling me but I didn't respond. What to do now? I feel the urge to call her.
Why do you want to speak to someone who doesnt want to speak to you?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wifehunter

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you didn't buy her chocolates and flowers yet?
 

MrJack

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Easy situation.

Buy her the chocolates and flowers like @wifehunter said but then you gotta finish the puzzle..

Tell her you love her and that nobody could ever replace her. (She will be tingling from head to toe).

Maybe throw in there that you’d rather die than not be with her. What this does is signal her puzzy to start tingling uncontrollably and at that point you got it in the bag.

I’d say good luck but it’d be unnecessary with such a foolproof plan.
 

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Easy situation.

Buy her the chocolates and flowers like @wifehunter said but then you gotta finish the puzzle..

Tell her you love her and that nobody could ever replace her. (She will be tingling from head to toe).

Maybe throw in there that you’d rather die than not be with her. What this does is signal her puzzy to start tingling uncontrollably and at that point you got it in the bag.

I’d say good luck but it’d be unnecessary with such a foolproof plan.
You forgot to buy her a pedestal, so she can lounge on it, while you feed her grapes.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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Hey guys,
I recently went on a date with a girl I met on a matrimonial website. The exp was not tht good & I couldn't keep up with her rejection tests. A day after the date we asked her parents if she was interested to which they said that she wanted to go on a second date with me.
I called her the next day but she didn't take my calls...she text me back saying that she was buzy & will call when shes free. I was pissed as she didn't reply till 4 days. Her dad called me on the 4th day but I didn't recieve his call. She is now calling me but I didn't respond. What to do now? I feel the urge to call her.
Man, you really have spiniing plates down pat. Options. Spiked for choice.

Wait wut?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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