"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Matrimonial date experience

Dave_Bellan88

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Hey guys,
I recently went on a date with a girl I met on a matrimonial website. The exp was not tht good & I couldn't keep up with her rejection tests. A day after the date we asked her parents if she was interested to which they said that she wanted to go on a second date with me.
I called her the next day but she didn't take my calls...she text me back saying that she was buzy & will call when shes free. I was pissed as she didn't reply till 4 days. Her dad called me on the 4th day but I didn't recieve his call. She is now calling me but I didn't respond. What to do now? I feel the urge to call her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marmel75

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Lmao!
 

mrgoodstuff

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Hey guys,
I recently went on a date with a girl I met on a matrimonial website. The exp was not tht good & I couldn't keep up with her rejection tests. A day after the date we asked her parents if she was interested to which they said that she wanted to go on a second date with me.
I called her the next day but she didn't take my calls...she text me back saying that she was buzy & will call when shes free. I was pissed as she didn't reply till 4 days. Her dad called me on the 4th day but I didn't recieve his call. She is now calling me but I didn't respond. What to do now? I feel the urge to call her.
Why do you want to speak to someone who doesnt want to speak to you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wifehunter

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you didn't buy her chocolates and flowers yet?
 

MrJack

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Easy situation.

Buy her the chocolates and flowers like @wifehunter said but then you gotta finish the puzzle..

Tell her you love her and that nobody could ever replace her. (She will be tingling from head to toe).

Maybe throw in there that you’d rather die than not be with her. What this does is signal her puzzy to start tingling uncontrollably and at that point you got it in the bag.

I’d say good luck but it’d be unnecessary with such a foolproof plan.
 

wifehunter

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Easy situation.

Buy her the chocolates and flowers like @wifehunter said but then you gotta finish the puzzle..

Tell her you love her and that nobody could ever replace her. (She will be tingling from head to toe).

Maybe throw in there that you’d rather die than not be with her. What this does is signal her puzzy to start tingling uncontrollably and at that point you got it in the bag.

I’d say good luck but it’d be unnecessary with such a foolproof plan.
You forgot to buy her a pedestal, so she can lounge on it, while you feed her grapes.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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Hey guys,
I recently went on a date with a girl I met on a matrimonial website. The exp was not tht good & I couldn't keep up with her rejection tests. A day after the date we asked her parents if she was interested to which they said that she wanted to go on a second date with me.
I called her the next day but she didn't take my calls...she text me back saying that she was buzy & will call when shes free. I was pissed as she didn't reply till 4 days. Her dad called me on the 4th day but I didn't recieve his call. She is now calling me but I didn't respond. What to do now? I feel the urge to call her.
Man, you really have spiniing plates down pat. Options. Spiked for choice.

Wait wut?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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