"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dave_Bellan88

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Hey guys,
I recently went on a date with a girl I met on a matrimonial website. The exp was not tht good & I couldn't keep up with her rejection tests. A day after the date we asked her parents if she was interested to which they said that she wanted to go on a second date with me.
I called her the next day but she didn't take my calls...she text me back saying that she was buzy & will call when shes free. I was pissed as she didn't reply till 4 days. Her dad called me on the 4th day but I didn't recieve his call. She is now calling me but I didn't respond. What to do now? I feel the urge to call her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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marmel75

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Lmao!
 

mrgoodstuff

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Hey guys,
I recently went on a date with a girl I met on a matrimonial website. The exp was not tht good & I couldn't keep up with her rejection tests. A day after the date we asked her parents if she was interested to which they said that she wanted to go on a second date with me.
I called her the next day but she didn't take my calls...she text me back saying that she was buzy & will call when shes free. I was pissed as she didn't reply till 4 days. Her dad called me on the 4th day but I didn't recieve his call. She is now calling me but I didn't respond. What to do now? I feel the urge to call her.
Why do you want to speak to someone who doesnt want to speak to you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wifehunter

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you didn't buy her chocolates and flowers yet?
 

MrJack

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Easy situation.

Buy her the chocolates and flowers like @wifehunter said but then you gotta finish the puzzle..

Tell her you love her and that nobody could ever replace her. (She will be tingling from head to toe).

Maybe throw in there that you’d rather die than not be with her. What this does is signal her puzzy to start tingling uncontrollably and at that point you got it in the bag.

I’d say good luck but it’d be unnecessary with such a foolproof plan.
 

wifehunter

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Easy situation.

Buy her the chocolates and flowers like @wifehunter said but then you gotta finish the puzzle..

Tell her you love her and that nobody could ever replace her. (She will be tingling from head to toe).

Maybe throw in there that you’d rather die than not be with her. What this does is signal her puzzy to start tingling uncontrollably and at that point you got it in the bag.

I’d say good luck but it’d be unnecessary with such a foolproof plan.
You forgot to buy her a pedestal, so she can lounge on it, while you feed her grapes.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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Hey guys,
I recently went on a date with a girl I met on a matrimonial website. The exp was not tht good & I couldn't keep up with her rejection tests. A day after the date we asked her parents if she was interested to which they said that she wanted to go on a second date with me.
I called her the next day but she didn't take my calls...she text me back saying that she was buzy & will call when shes free. I was pissed as she didn't reply till 4 days. Her dad called me on the 4th day but I didn't recieve his call. She is now calling me but I didn't respond. What to do now? I feel the urge to call her.
Man, you really have spiniing plates down pat. Options. Spiked for choice.

Wait wut?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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