"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If I think about the thing that would most help us grow as men and be of help to us in our lives, it's a "real" group of people.
Come to this video; there are many online communities that want to help men be "men" in the truest sense.
It would be interesting to discuss here the real communities you've found of men you've tried, which are solid groups, and which you can define as truly healthy and excellent for helping you surround yourself with real men who help you succeed in life.

What are they?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the groups that focus on something other than this. if you go with the flow they like, will bring you along.
 

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I find mma groups, or taking something as simple as morning cycling can help strengthen the bonding process. Lol Did you know in India men who are great friends hold hands in the street, as a sign of masculine friendship and gesture. It’s not seen as gay.
 

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I was in a group of men at church about 15 years ago that was around overcoming personal obstacles and how or when faith began to play a role in the process. Some great connections were made that persist to this day. I can call any of them at any time regardless of how long it’s been and ask for anything. I took leadership positions in it at a young age. I was one of a handful of guys under the age 40. I would recommend.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I was in a group of men at church about 15 years ago that was around overcoming personal obstacles and how or when faith began to play a role in the process. Some great connections were made that persist to this day. I can call any of them at any time regardless of how long it’s been and ask for anything. I took leadership positions in it at a young age. I was one of a handful of guys under the age 40. I would recommend.
Pretending not to notice the avatar lmao. Solid post.
 

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I was in a group of men at church about 15 years ago that was around overcoming personal obstacles and how or when faith began to play a role in the process. Some great connections were made that persist to this day. I can call any of them at any time regardless of how long it’s been and ask for anything. I took leadership positions in it at a young age. I was one of a handful of guys under the age 40. I would recommend.
Damn almost pissed my pants looking at your profile picture :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
 

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I find mma groups, or taking something as simple as morning cycling can help strengthen the bonding process. Lol Did you know in India men who are great friends hold hands in the street, as a sign of masculine friendship and gesture. It’s not seen as gay.
Clearly a cultural thing. Like it isn't gay for guys to hug here - as long as it's a manly hug, with maybe a good slap or two on the shoulder. :)
 

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But somehow/where you've to find em
if you’re a loner, this website is a great resource. If you’re a little bit on the religious, Conservative side, may I suggest The Christ is King forum which are the members of Roosh’s old forum which he deleted. If you’re a little bit on the lefty, liberal side I recommend ‘ The Hip forums’ which consists of hipsters like myself who talk about a vast array of topics.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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