"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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If I think about the thing that would most help us grow as men and be of help to us in our lives, it's a "real" group of people.
Come to this video; there are many online communities that want to help men be "men" in the truest sense.
It would be interesting to discuss here the real communities you've found of men you've tried, which are solid groups, and which you can define as truly healthy and excellent for helping you surround yourself with real men who help you succeed in life.

What are they?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the groups that focus on something other than this. if you go with the flow they like, will bring you along.
 

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I find mma groups, or taking something as simple as morning cycling can help strengthen the bonding process. Lol Did you know in India men who are great friends hold hands in the street, as a sign of masculine friendship and gesture. It’s not seen as gay.
 

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I was in a group of men at church about 15 years ago that was around overcoming personal obstacles and how or when faith began to play a role in the process. Some great connections were made that persist to this day. I can call any of them at any time regardless of how long it’s been and ask for anything. I took leadership positions in it at a young age. I was one of a handful of guys under the age 40. I would recommend.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I was in a group of men at church about 15 years ago that was around overcoming personal obstacles and how or when faith began to play a role in the process. Some great connections were made that persist to this day. I can call any of them at any time regardless of how long it’s been and ask for anything. I took leadership positions in it at a young age. I was one of a handful of guys under the age 40. I would recommend.
Pretending not to notice the avatar lmao. Solid post.
 

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I was in a group of men at church about 15 years ago that was around overcoming personal obstacles and how or when faith began to play a role in the process. Some great connections were made that persist to this day. I can call any of them at any time regardless of how long it’s been and ask for anything. I took leadership positions in it at a young age. I was one of a handful of guys under the age 40. I would recommend.
Damn almost pissed my pants looking at your profile picture :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
 

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I find mma groups, or taking something as simple as morning cycling can help strengthen the bonding process. Lol Did you know in India men who are great friends hold hands in the street, as a sign of masculine friendship and gesture. It’s not seen as gay.
Clearly a cultural thing. Like it isn't gay for guys to hug here - as long as it's a manly hug, with maybe a good slap or two on the shoulder. :)
 

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But somehow/where you've to find em
if you’re a loner, this website is a great resource. If you’re a little bit on the religious, Conservative side, may I suggest The Christ is King forum which are the members of Roosh’s old forum which he deleted. If you’re a little bit on the lefty, liberal side I recommend ‘ The Hip forums’ which consists of hipsters like myself who talk about a vast array of topics.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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