MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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This guy has swiped right on 200,000 women, without much success
By the end, he was single, $6,000 poorer, and profoundly exhausted
my opinion: It's over.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
6k? Could have spent that money better and used it to do other things to meet women other than tinder trash.![]()
This guy has swiped right on 200,000 women, without much success
By the end, he was single, $6,000 poorer, and profoundly exhaustedwww.independent.co.uk
my opinion: It's over.![]()
Reminds me of an article I saw written by a female feminist psychologist about online dating and how it's hard for women to use old because WOMEN outnumber MEN 4 to 1 on old!! Yes she claims more women than men on tinder lol and the other old sites and say how many have it easy on old. Bwahhahaha."Stadil’s experience ... runs counter pretty much everything we think we know about how online dating works for straight men. It’s a “numbers game.” A lottery. A volume business."
Haha, this section there is how you know for certain it's written by a woman. And when you go up and check, yep, there it is - a female author. I love guessing the gender of articles' authors, I'm as good as always right.
Closed it after that.
Ha, I agree. Just think how much money Match LLC makes from their OLD websites and apps like Tinder, Match, etc. from desperate men.Anyone looking for a devout girlfriend on Tinder deserves to be $6,000 poorer.
Not yet. Today slept in, had a couple orders came in via UPS I gotta price out for work tomorrow, ran 2 miles on the treadmill, fapped in the shower and now pricing my stuff.Did you get that home gym together yet?
Hes coming on Monday to put it together. He was in the hospital for a stomach bug last week. Hopefully not Corona virus lol.How did that stop the guy who was supposed to do it for you?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
And probably better looking than the trash I see on OLD as well. If you add up how much OLD cost, especially for the better sites AND the extra features like boosts, read message feature, etc. etc. in a years time you could probably have hired a couple escorts. Tinder costs can add up quick.Six grand buys you thirty hookers here.
Assuming you have six grand to blow, would you rather get blown thirty times or piss it into the wind?
If I didnt need complete quiet and total control over my environment I would do the same.Ironically I haven't experienced that. I share a large ancestral house with my (twice widowed) mother and half sister. The house is big enough to give me my own space although I yearn for a home of my own, but I'm not dumb enough to go and piss all my money away renting a shoebox. Fūck that shīt.
By living with my mother, I don't need mothering from girls I get with.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.