MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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This guy has swiped right on 200,000 women, without much success
By the end, he was single, $6,000 poorer, and profoundly exhausted
my opinion: It's over.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
6k? Could have spent that money better and used it to do other things to meet women other than tinder trash.![]()
This guy has swiped right on 200,000 women, without much success
By the end, he was single, $6,000 poorer, and profoundly exhaustedwww.independent.co.uk
my opinion: It's over.![]()
Reminds me of an article I saw written by a female feminist psychologist about online dating and how it's hard for women to use old because WOMEN outnumber MEN 4 to 1 on old!! Yes she claims more women than men on tinder lol and the other old sites and say how many have it easy on old. Bwahhahaha."Stadil’s experience ... runs counter pretty much everything we think we know about how online dating works for straight men. It’s a “numbers game.” A lottery. A volume business."
Haha, this section there is how you know for certain it's written by a woman. And when you go up and check, yep, there it is - a female author. I love guessing the gender of articles' authors, I'm as good as always right.
Closed it after that.
Ha, I agree. Just think how much money Match LLC makes from their OLD websites and apps like Tinder, Match, etc. from desperate men.Anyone looking for a devout girlfriend on Tinder deserves to be $6,000 poorer.
Not yet. Today slept in, had a couple orders came in via UPS I gotta price out for work tomorrow, ran 2 miles on the treadmill, fapped in the shower and now pricing my stuff.Did you get that home gym together yet?
Hes coming on Monday to put it together. He was in the hospital for a stomach bug last week. Hopefully not Corona virus lol.How did that stop the guy who was supposed to do it for you?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
And probably better looking than the trash I see on OLD as well. If you add up how much OLD cost, especially for the better sites AND the extra features like boosts, read message feature, etc. etc. in a years time you could probably have hired a couple escorts. Tinder costs can add up quick.Six grand buys you thirty hookers here.
Assuming you have six grand to blow, would you rather get blown thirty times or piss it into the wind?
If I didnt need complete quiet and total control over my environment I would do the same.Ironically I haven't experienced that. I share a large ancestral house with my (twice widowed) mother and half sister. The house is big enough to give me my own space although I yearn for a home of my own, but I'm not dumb enough to go and piss all my money away renting a shoebox. Fūck that shīt.
By living with my mother, I don't need mothering from girls I get with.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.