Ok so out of nowhere this girl I went to school with and whom has a boyfriend texted me(i gave her my number on myspace before I deleted it) saying to text her back if I want to hangout sometime. Afterwards she was like "i have to go, my bf will kill ,me if he knows im talking to someone". Should I make a move knowing that she hs a bf?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Make a move or what?
- Thread starter twotyme
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Well, if you want to have sex with a dead girl, then by all means, text her back.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I wouldn't say so. It was quoted once, " 'hang out' is girl code for 'let's have sex' " By Tari from DYD Interviews.
Still, I would let her meet me at a location convenient for me. (You know like the mall or something, a place a go to anyways.)
I would say something like "Hey girl, if you want to hang out, I'll be at the mall (Or anywhere you go regularly) at 4:00 so meet me at the food court.
If she says no, or dosen't show, you shouldn't give a fack, because you where already doing something on your own. Maybe with your friends, I don't know. (Hint)
If she does show, gather her meaning of 'hang out'. If whe wants to have sex with you either do what you learned on this site, or tell her you don't like to play games with girls. You're not her type and you need honest women in your life.
Then again, she could be trying to hook you up with some of her female friends for all you and I know.
Invite her over at her expense since it was her idea, and get the info. No need to make things complicated guys. Relax Krassus. ^_^