Ok so out of nowhere this girl I went to school with and whom has a boyfriend texted me(i gave her my number on myspace before I deleted it) saying to text her back if I want to hangout sometime. Afterwards she was like "i have to go, my bf will kill ,me if he knows im talking to someone". Should I make a move knowing that she hs a bf?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Make a move or what?
- Thread starter twotyme
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Well, if you want to have sex with a dead girl, then by all means, text her back.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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I wouldn't say so. It was quoted once, " 'hang out' is girl code for 'let's have sex' " By Tari from DYD Interviews.
Still, I would let her meet me at a location convenient for me. (You know like the mall or something, a place a go to anyways.)
I would say something like "Hey girl, if you want to hang out, I'll be at the mall (Or anywhere you go regularly) at 4:00 so meet me at the food court.
If she says no, or dosen't show, you shouldn't give a fack, because you where already doing something on your own. Maybe with your friends, I don't know. (Hint)
If she does show, gather her meaning of 'hang out'. If whe wants to have sex with you either do what you learned on this site, or tell her you don't like to play games with girls. You're not her type and you need honest women in your life.
Then again, she could be trying to hook you up with some of her female friends for all you and I know.
Invite her over at her expense since it was her idea, and get the info. No need to make things complicated guys. Relax Krassus. ^_^