Ok so out of nowhere this girl I went to school with and whom has a boyfriend texted me(i gave her my number on myspace before I deleted it) saying to text her back if I want to hangout sometime. Afterwards she was like "i have to go, my bf will kill ,me if he knows im talking to someone". Should I make a move knowing that she hs a bf?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Make a move or what?
- Thread starter twotyme
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Well, if you want to have sex with a dead girl, then by all means, text her back.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I wouldn't say so. It was quoted once, " 'hang out' is girl code for 'let's have sex' " By Tari from DYD Interviews.
Still, I would let her meet me at a location convenient for me. (You know like the mall or something, a place a go to anyways.)
I would say something like "Hey girl, if you want to hang out, I'll be at the mall (Or anywhere you go regularly) at 4:00 so meet me at the food court.
If she says no, or dosen't show, you shouldn't give a fack, because you where already doing something on your own. Maybe with your friends, I don't know. (Hint)
If she does show, gather her meaning of 'hang out'. If whe wants to have sex with you either do what you learned on this site, or tell her you don't like to play games with girls. You're not her type and you need honest women in your life.
Then again, she could be trying to hook you up with some of her female friends for all you and I know.
Invite her over at her expense since it was her idea, and get the info. No need to make things complicated guys. Relax Krassus. ^_^