Ok so out of nowhere this girl I went to school with and whom has a boyfriend texted me(i gave her my number on myspace before I deleted it) saying to text her back if I want to hangout sometime. Afterwards she was like "i have to go, my bf will kill ,me if he knows im talking to someone". Should I make a move knowing that she hs a bf?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Make a move or what?
- Thread starter twotyme
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Well, if you want to have sex with a dead girl, then by all means, text her back.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I wouldn't say so. It was quoted once, " 'hang out' is girl code for 'let's have sex' " By Tari from DYD Interviews.
Still, I would let her meet me at a location convenient for me. (You know like the mall or something, a place a go to anyways.)
I would say something like "Hey girl, if you want to hang out, I'll be at the mall (Or anywhere you go regularly) at 4:00 so meet me at the food court.
If she says no, or dosen't show, you shouldn't give a fack, because you where already doing something on your own. Maybe with your friends, I don't know. (Hint)
If she does show, gather her meaning of 'hang out'. If whe wants to have sex with you either do what you learned on this site, or tell her you don't like to play games with girls. You're not her type and you need honest women in your life.
Then again, she could be trying to hook you up with some of her female friends for all you and I know.
Invite her over at her expense since it was her idea, and get the info. No need to make things complicated guys. Relax Krassus. ^_^