I am a total afc but this is what happened. girl said she was going to meet me in the city tmr for dinner.... and i replied back with, ur such a bad girl, playing hard to get all the time... then she said, in that case, im not going to see you for dinner..... then i replied back wit are you serious???? then after waiting an hour, i made another afc mistake by texting her "i rly liked you, but we had a good run. bye." have a chuckle if u will, but i was wondering is it over and if there is no chance of repairing the damage?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
made epic afc mistake and need someone to help me out.....
- Thread starter cguy2004
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
Maybe next time a girl agrees to meet, just say "Cool, I'll see you then" and stop with the ****y/funny nonsense when it's not needed.
QFTWhitePimp said:Maybe next time a girl agrees to meet, just say "Cool, I'll see you then" and stop with the ****y/funny nonsense when it's not needed.
+1
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
1 Bad Dude
Don Juan
Gotta love texting. This wouldn't happen if you guys would slowly allow girls into your life one step at a time. Like waiting until you've had at least two, maybe three dates with her before texting.
Or immature like the OP who tries to throw in ****y and funny all the time cause he heard it on the internet?LoneWolf said:sounds like an immature girl anyway. to cancel a date cause of that? she saved you some hassle.
neghitzbrah
Don Juan
I only text to schedule a phone call. I only call to schedule a meetup.
I agree with 1 Bad Dude. Texting is retarded and by far the worst invention ever.
I agree with 1 Bad Dude. Texting is retarded and by far the worst invention ever.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.