I am a total afc but this is what happened. girl said she was going to meet me in the city tmr for dinner.... and i replied back with, ur such a bad girl, playing hard to get all the time... then she said, in that case, im not going to see you for dinner..... then i replied back wit are you serious???? then after waiting an hour, i made another afc mistake by texting her "i rly liked you, but we had a good run. bye." have a chuckle if u will, but i was wondering is it over and if there is no chance of repairing the damage?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
made epic afc mistake and need someone to help me out.....
- Thread starter cguy2004
- Start date
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WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
Maybe next time a girl agrees to meet, just say "Cool, I'll see you then" and stop with the ****y/funny nonsense when it's not needed.
QFTWhitePimp said:Maybe next time a girl agrees to meet, just say "Cool, I'll see you then" and stop with the ****y/funny nonsense when it's not needed.
+1
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
1 Bad Dude
Don Juan
Gotta love texting. This wouldn't happen if you guys would slowly allow girls into your life one step at a time. Like waiting until you've had at least two, maybe three dates with her before texting.
Or immature like the OP who tries to throw in ****y and funny all the time cause he heard it on the internet?LoneWolf said:sounds like an immature girl anyway. to cancel a date cause of that? she saved you some hassle.
neghitzbrah
Don Juan
I only text to schedule a phone call. I only call to schedule a meetup.
I agree with 1 Bad Dude. Texting is retarded and by far the worst invention ever.
I agree with 1 Bad Dude. Texting is retarded and by far the worst invention ever.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
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