I am a total afc but this is what happened. girl said she was going to meet me in the city tmr for dinner.... and i replied back with, ur such a bad girl, playing hard to get all the time... then she said, in that case, im not going to see you for dinner..... then i replied back wit are you serious???? then after waiting an hour, i made another afc mistake by texting her "i rly liked you, but we had a good run. bye." have a chuckle if u will, but i was wondering is it over and if there is no chance of repairing the damage?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
made epic afc mistake and need someone to help me out.....
- Thread starter cguy2004
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
Maybe next time a girl agrees to meet, just say "Cool, I'll see you then" and stop with the ****y/funny nonsense when it's not needed.
QFTWhitePimp said:Maybe next time a girl agrees to meet, just say "Cool, I'll see you then" and stop with the ****y/funny nonsense when it's not needed.
+1
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
1 Bad Dude
Don Juan
Gotta love texting. This wouldn't happen if you guys would slowly allow girls into your life one step at a time. Like waiting until you've had at least two, maybe three dates with her before texting.
Or immature like the OP who tries to throw in ****y and funny all the time cause he heard it on the internet?LoneWolf said:sounds like an immature girl anyway. to cancel a date cause of that? she saved you some hassle.
neghitzbrah
Don Juan
I only text to schedule a phone call. I only call to schedule a meetup.
I agree with 1 Bad Dude. Texting is retarded and by far the worst invention ever.
I agree with 1 Bad Dude. Texting is retarded and by far the worst invention ever.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.