BongDuy
Master Don Juan
do you guys think this makes women want you more if you tell them you're a virgin?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
IT DEPENDSBongDuy said:do you guys think this makes women want you more if you tell them you're a virgin?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Hell no. If she asks, then avoid the question.BongDuy said:do you guys think this makes women want you more if you tell them you're a virgin?
This.f283000 said:I would have to say no based on the fact that women are known for wanting guys that get a lot of women. This is where we get the PUA term "pre-selection." Pre-selection means that for example if you are seen walking around with a girl then other girls will become attracted to you. This is for the simple fact that you have a girl by your side which shows that you have already been selected by a girl, so there must be something to you. The other reason is that women want what other women have. This compared to the guy walking alone which to them shows he hasn't been selected thus less attractive to girls.
Maybe someone else will give you a different answer but from a point of view based on the theory of pre-selection I would have to say no to your answer. Women like guys with experience, women like players, these are facts. If I were you I would just lie to a woman with some silly answer if this is a problem for you. This should disarm her question
hb: how many girls you been with?
you: one thousand four hundred and thirty seven and 1/2
hb: what's the 1/2?
you: that was just a bj not much else![]()
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.