"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lying about ur virgininty

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would have to say no based on the fact that women are known for wanting guys that get a lot of women. This is where we get the PUA term "pre-selection." Pre-selection means that for example if you are seen walking around with a girl then other girls will become attracted to you. This is for the simple fact that you have a girl by your side which shows that you have already been selected by a girl, so there must be something to you. The other reason is that women want what other women have. This compared to the guy walking alone which to them shows he hasn't been selected thus less attractive to girls.

Maybe someone else will give you a different answer but from a point of view based on the theory of pre-selection I would have to say no to your answer. Women like guys with experience, women like players, these are facts. If I were you I would just lie to a woman with some silly answer if this is a problem for you. This should disarm her question

hb: how many girls you been with?
you: one thousand four hundred and thirty seven and 1/2
hb: what's the 1/2?
you: that was just a bj not much else ;)
 

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In English: No!

In Spanish: No!

In German: Nein!

In Russian: Nyet!

In Ebonics: Hell no!

In My Words: F**k No!

The woman will think you're brave for admitting that, but it'll bite you in the ass in the long run. Women will think you suck with women. Not good.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JCballin88

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Girl: are you a virgin?
You: I'll let you decide for yourself afterwards
 

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BongDuy said:
do you guys think this makes women want you more if you tell them you're a virgin?
Hell no. If she asks, then avoid the question.

All is fair in love and war.
 

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f283000 said:
I would have to say no based on the fact that women are known for wanting guys that get a lot of women. This is where we get the PUA term "pre-selection." Pre-selection means that for example if you are seen walking around with a girl then other girls will become attracted to you. This is for the simple fact that you have a girl by your side which shows that you have already been selected by a girl, so there must be something to you. The other reason is that women want what other women have. This compared to the guy walking alone which to them shows he hasn't been selected thus less attractive to girls.

Maybe someone else will give you a different answer but from a point of view based on the theory of pre-selection I would have to say no to your answer. Women like guys with experience, women like players, these are facts. If I were you I would just lie to a woman with some silly answer if this is a problem for you. This should disarm her question

hb: how many girls you been with?
you: one thousand four hundred and thirty seven and 1/2
hb: what's the 1/2?
you: that was just a bj not much else ;)
This.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Deep down, women want men that live in abundance and have had lots of sex with women. With my first girlfriend, I lied about my virginity. I would recommend that you do the same. If your not used to having sex and your wacking off a lot, you will probably take a while to bust at first as it is a different sensation than your used to. She will never know the difference if you pound her like you mean it.
 

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The answer is no. At first I use to steer clear of virgins, simply cause I didn't want to be the person who lead them astray. For the past year I had a couple of virgins, but only cause one was really hot looking and the other was out of pity. He would have died a virgin.
 
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