BongDuy
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do you guys think this makes women want you more if you tell them you're a virgin?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lying about ur virgininty
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I would have to say no based on the fact that women are known for wanting guys that get a lot of women. This is where we get the PUA term "pre-selection." Pre-selection means that for example if you are seen walking around with a girl then other girls will become attracted to you. This is for the simple fact that you have a girl by your side which shows that you have already been selected by a girl, so there must be something to you. The other reason is that women want what other women have. This compared to the guy walking alone which to them shows he hasn't been selected thus less attractive to girls.
Maybe someone else will give you a different answer but from a point of view based on the theory of pre-selection I would have to say no to your answer. Women like guys with experience, women like players, these are facts. If I were you I would just lie to a woman with some silly answer if this is a problem for you. This should disarm her question
hb: how many girls you been with?
you: one thousand four hundred and thirty seven and 1/2
hb: what's the 1/2?
you: that was just a bj not much else
Maybe someone else will give you a different answer but from a point of view based on the theory of pre-selection I would have to say no to your answer. Women like guys with experience, women like players, these are facts. If I were you I would just lie to a woman with some silly answer if this is a problem for you. This should disarm her question
hb: how many girls you been with?
you: one thousand four hundred and thirty seven and 1/2
hb: what's the 1/2?
you: that was just a bj not much else
scrouds
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No (Since this needs to be at least 3 characters, Hell No)
Scar Tissue
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IT DEPENDSBongDuy said:
It depends on what kind of girl she is and what kind of vibe you give out.
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In English: No!
In Spanish: No!
In German: Nein!
In Russian: Nyet!
In Ebonics: Hell no!
In My Words: F**k No!
The woman will think you're brave for admitting that, but it'll bite you in the ass in the long run. Women will think you suck with women. Not good.
In Spanish: No!
In German: Nein!
In Russian: Nyet!
In Ebonics: Hell no!
In My Words: F**k No!
The woman will think you're brave for admitting that, but it'll bite you in the ass in the long run. Women will think you suck with women. Not good.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
JCballin88
Senior Don Juan
Girl: are you a virgin?
You: I'll let you decide for yourself afterwards
You: I'll let you decide for yourself afterwards
Hughman
Senior Don Juan
This.f283000 said:I would have to say no based on the fact that women are known for wanting guys that get a lot of women. This is where we get the PUA term "pre-selection." Pre-selection means that for example if you are seen walking around with a girl then other girls will become attracted to you. This is for the simple fact that you have a girl by your side which shows that you have already been selected by a girl, so there must be something to you. The other reason is that women want what other women have. This compared to the guy walking alone which to them shows he hasn't been selected thus less attractive to girls.
Maybe someone else will give you a different answer but from a point of view based on the theory of pre-selection I would have to say no to your answer. Women like guys with experience, women like players, these are facts. If I were you I would just lie to a woman with some silly answer if this is a problem for you. This should disarm her question
hb: how many girls you been with?
you: one thousand four hundred and thirty seven and 1/2
hb: what's the 1/2?
you: that was just a bj not much else
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
no
Deep down, women want men that live in abundance and have had lots of sex with women. With my first girlfriend, I lied about my virginity. I would recommend that you do the same. If your not used to having sex and your wacking off a lot, you will probably take a while to bust at first as it is a different sensation than your used to. She will never know the difference if you pound her like you mean it.
Deep down, women want men that live in abundance and have had lots of sex with women. With my first girlfriend, I lied about my virginity. I would recommend that you do the same. If your not used to having sex and your wacking off a lot, you will probably take a while to bust at first as it is a different sensation than your used to. She will never know the difference if you pound her like you mean it.
The answer is no. At first I use to steer clear of virgins, simply cause I didn't want to be the person who lead them astray. For the past year I had a couple of virgins, but only cause one was really hot looking and the other was out of pity. He would have died a virgin.
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Depends on the girl