"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lying about ur virgininty

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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f283000

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I would have to say no based on the fact that women are known for wanting guys that get a lot of women. This is where we get the PUA term "pre-selection." Pre-selection means that for example if you are seen walking around with a girl then other girls will become attracted to you. This is for the simple fact that you have a girl by your side which shows that you have already been selected by a girl, so there must be something to you. The other reason is that women want what other women have. This compared to the guy walking alone which to them shows he hasn't been selected thus less attractive to girls.

Maybe someone else will give you a different answer but from a point of view based on the theory of pre-selection I would have to say no to your answer. Women like guys with experience, women like players, these are facts. If I were you I would just lie to a woman with some silly answer if this is a problem for you. This should disarm her question

hb: how many girls you been with?
you: one thousand four hundred and thirty seven and 1/2
hb: what's the 1/2?
you: that was just a bj not much else ;)
 

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In English: No!

In Spanish: No!

In German: Nein!

In Russian: Nyet!

In Ebonics: Hell no!

In My Words: F**k No!

The woman will think you're brave for admitting that, but it'll bite you in the ass in the long run. Women will think you suck with women. Not good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl: are you a virgin?
You: I'll let you decide for yourself afterwards
 

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BongDuy said:
do you guys think this makes women want you more if you tell them you're a virgin?
Hell no. If she asks, then avoid the question.

All is fair in love and war.
 

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f283000 said:
I would have to say no based on the fact that women are known for wanting guys that get a lot of women. This is where we get the PUA term "pre-selection." Pre-selection means that for example if you are seen walking around with a girl then other girls will become attracted to you. This is for the simple fact that you have a girl by your side which shows that you have already been selected by a girl, so there must be something to you. The other reason is that women want what other women have. This compared to the guy walking alone which to them shows he hasn't been selected thus less attractive to girls.

Maybe someone else will give you a different answer but from a point of view based on the theory of pre-selection I would have to say no to your answer. Women like guys with experience, women like players, these are facts. If I were you I would just lie to a woman with some silly answer if this is a problem for you. This should disarm her question

hb: how many girls you been with?
you: one thousand four hundred and thirty seven and 1/2
hb: what's the 1/2?
you: that was just a bj not much else ;)
This.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Deep down, women want men that live in abundance and have had lots of sex with women. With my first girlfriend, I lied about my virginity. I would recommend that you do the same. If your not used to having sex and your wacking off a lot, you will probably take a while to bust at first as it is a different sensation than your used to. She will never know the difference if you pound her like you mean it.
 

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The answer is no. At first I use to steer clear of virgins, simply cause I didn't want to be the person who lead them astray. For the past year I had a couple of virgins, but only cause one was really hot looking and the other was out of pity. He would have died a virgin.
 
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