BongDuy
Master Don Juan
do you guys think this makes women want you more if you tell them you're a virgin?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
IT DEPENDSBongDuy said:do you guys think this makes women want you more if you tell them you're a virgin?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Hell no. If she asks, then avoid the question.BongDuy said:do you guys think this makes women want you more if you tell them you're a virgin?
This.f283000 said:I would have to say no based on the fact that women are known for wanting guys that get a lot of women. This is where we get the PUA term "pre-selection." Pre-selection means that for example if you are seen walking around with a girl then other girls will become attracted to you. This is for the simple fact that you have a girl by your side which shows that you have already been selected by a girl, so there must be something to you. The other reason is that women want what other women have. This compared to the guy walking alone which to them shows he hasn't been selected thus less attractive to girls.
Maybe someone else will give you a different answer but from a point of view based on the theory of pre-selection I would have to say no to your answer. Women like guys with experience, women like players, these are facts. If I were you I would just lie to a woman with some silly answer if this is a problem for you. This should disarm her question
hb: how many girls you been with?
you: one thousand four hundred and thirty seven and 1/2
hb: what's the 1/2?
you: that was just a bj not much else![]()
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.