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Lowering standards for release.

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Not to mention, Mani/pedis, exfoliating cream etc. Life is rough.
Did I hit home? Sorry to have done that to you but you were a needed example to be used toward the assistance of others.

We thank you for that. And have a nice day.
 

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Pretty sure you copy and paste that. Come at me, bro
 

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@TyTe`EyEz you're a sad case.

The reason why we clash often, it's because you're on a bandwagon NOT to empower men but make men lesser or stuck in the same shiethole.

If I were to have ur attitude, I'd still be stuck in the jungle, never knowing what a city is like or even experience other countries/civilizations.

Some men were adamant to want to fly and they created planes.

Some wanted to go to the moon and did.

It was all a dream, an impossible dream but it became possible when men put their minds into it but not according to you since its a waste of time.

As for beautiful women, they get hit all the time, by moneyed men, by good looking men, etc so much so that most are immune until she meets one who has a variation of attractive attributes.

You're just too bitter with life but that's fine, don't make the rest bitter just like you and feel they can't achieve anything.
 

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@TyTe`EyEz you're a sad case.

The reason why we clash often, it's because you're on a bandwagon NOT to empower men but make men lesser or stuck in the same shiethole.

If I were to have ur attitude, I'd still be stuck in the jungle, never knowing what a city is like or even experience other countries/civilizations.

Some men were adamant to want to fly and they created planes.

Some wanted to go to the moon and did.

It was all a dream, an impossible dream but it became possible when men put their minds into it but not according to you since its a waste of time.

As for beautiful women, they get hit all the time, by moneyed men, by good looking men, etc so much so that most are immune until she meets one who has a variation of attractive attributes.

You're just too bitter with life but that's fine, don't make the rest bitter just like you and feel they can't achieve anything.
Well, I respect guru, as he used to give concrete advice, and still does sometimes.

But you? Lol

You obviously post a lot, that's been beaten to death, but nobody ever talks about your lack of substance. How can you post 1000 words a day and not really say anything?

Spaz: you should be more masculine. You should become a successful man that women gravitate towards. You should develop your social sphere. Pua are feminine seducers.

These are your mainstays, and they're unoriginal and unhelpful. You make me laugh, boy.

Hold on. You know what's better? That I've seen you get beaten down in debates, only to mold that poster's ideas into your own. Suddenly, it's spaz the king, spouting guru's ideas. Or mine.

You're an overbearing fraud.
 

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@Spaz but I still like you
 

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Set up an account on SA or SDM. I've screwed many girls off of those sites. No $. If you're decent looking, in shape, fun and charismatic, take them out and show them a good time and se*x is almost a given. Most are girls 20+ years younger than me.
 

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Well, I respect guru, as he used to give concrete advice, and still does sometimes.

But you? Lol

You obviously post a lot, that's been beaten to death, but nobody ever talks about your lack of substance. How can you post 1000 words a day and not really say anything?

Spaz: you should be more masculine. You should become a successful man that women gravitate towards. You should develop your social sphere. Pua are feminine seducers.

These are your mainstays, and they're unoriginal and unhelpful. You make me laugh, boy.

Hold on. You know what's better? That I've seen you get beaten down in debates, only to mold that poster's ideas into your own. Suddenly, it's spaz the king, spouting guru's ideas. Or mine.

You're an overbearing fraud.
To answer you question about 'giving' more directly, giving of yourself in an unconditional way. As guru has said before, egoless love. It's a state that requires work, maintenance, and vigilance. When you fuuck to simply bust a nut you're coming from ego and wasting your time. You may stumble on a girl that you get along with and feelings may develop. But your personal issues of self neglect will resurface when the infatuation wears off. That's why self improvement is so important, it's a life long practice and if you build it right they really do come. The way you irrevocably dismiss the idea says much more about you than me. Why you would tout a shiitty attitude and limiting beliefs about life, people, and growth as superior makes zero sense. You've obviously been burned and can't bring yourself to let go of your resentment. You're in too deep, willing to take your flawed stance to the grave because of your ego. I'm not saying my stance is better, but at least I'm open to changing it and admitting fault.

It's funny there's no real counter argument from you. You're quick to attack people's character rather than the logic of their argument. You focus so heavily on a person's character you don't even comprehend what they're trying to get across. You feel validated by anyone who's gullible enough to get baited into your diick swinging contest. It's like you don't care if it's good or bad attention, you just want attention. It feels like a facade, the very false confidence that I make sure not to fall into. I don't mind if you disagree, I think it's healthy, but you lose respect when you deviate in an attempt to undermine someone's character. I know it's probably useless to say any of this, because when you're stumped you fall silent, unwilling to change, unwilling to learn. A wet match in a dark cave. This is the one and only time I'm going to speak about your character, because it's not constructive, not my style, and not why I'm here. In the next thread if you can't maintain your civility I'll simply stop responding until you regain it.

When people call you out for this stuff and your response is to try and tear them down you're only proving their point.
 

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Well, I respect guru, as he used to give concrete advice, and still does sometimes.

But you? Lol

You obviously post a lot, that's been beaten to death, but nobody ever talks about your lack of substance. How can you post 1000 words a day and not really say anything?

Spaz: you should be more masculine. You should become a successful man that women gravitate towards. You should develop your social sphere. Pua are feminine seducers.

These are your mainstays, and they're unoriginal and unhelpful. You make me laugh, boy.

Hold on. You know what's better? That I've seen you get beaten down in debates, only to mold that poster's ideas into your own. Suddenly, it's spaz the king, spouting guru's ideas. Or mine.

You're an overbearing fraud.
You're got to realise by now that I don't care.
 

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My thought is that if your only goal is release then rub one off. Just dont do it excessively. But if you want to date and are in a slump then nothing wrong with dating down temporarily and working your way back up.
 

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Only 45+ year old meth addicts with missin taith and obnoxiously thick redneck accents for me
 

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Am I the only one that can't lower my standard?

I just can't make a effort at all if the women is below my standard.
I become lazy af
 

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To answer you question about 'giving' more directly, giving of yourself in an unconditional way. As guru has said before, egoless love. It's a state that requires work, maintenance, and vigilance. When you fuuck to simply bust a nut you're coming from ego and wasting your time. You may stumble on a girl that you get along with and feelings may develop. But your personal issues of self neglect will resurface when the infatuation wears off. That's why self improvement is so important, it's a life long practice and if you build it right they really do come. The way you irrevocably dismiss the idea says much more about you than me. Why you would tout a shiitty attitude and limiting beliefs about life, people, and growth as superior makes zero sense. You've obviously been burned and can't bring yourself to let go of your resentment. You're in too deep, willing to take your flawed stance to the grave because of your ego. I'm not saying my stance is better, but at least I'm open to changing it and admitting fault.

It's funny there's no real counter argument from you. You're quick to attack people's character rather than the logic of their argument. You focus so heavily on a person's character you don't even comprehend what they're trying to get across. You feel validated by anyone who's gullible enough to get baited into your diick swinging contest. It's like you don't care if it's good or bad attention, you just want attention. It feels like a facade, the very false confidence that I make sure not to fall into. I don't mind if you disagree, I think it's healthy, but you lose respect when you deviate in an attempt to undermine someone's character. I know it's probably useless to say any of this, because when you're stumped you fall silent, unwilling to change, unwilling to learn. A wet match in a dark cave. This is the one and only time I'm going to speak about your character, because it's not constructive, not my style, and not why I'm here. In the next thread if you can't maintain your civility I'll simply stop responding until you regain it.

When people call you out for this stuff and your response is to try and tear them down you're only proving their point.
What logic? You came into the thread and attacked the OP for considering lowering his standards. You said it was worse than jacking off. Hell, even guru says that he lowers his standards from time to time.

I haven't attacked you. Your ideas about sex are a bit weird to me, and you can be smug about it. That's all.
 

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What logic? You came into the thread and attacked the OP for considering lowering his standards. You said it was worse than jacking off. Hell, even guru says that he lowers his standards from time to time.

I haven't attacked you. Your ideas about sex are a bit weird to me, and you can be smug about it. That's all.
I'm not sure why you're speaking on behalf of OP but please quote what you feel I said in my post is attacking him. I've said lowering standards is a move of desperation because it is. It means you're guided by your diick to the point that you'll do less than what you feel you deserve. Like guru says when reality sets in you'll realize it was stupid, or like I said you'll call it your new norm.

I read what guru said and I disagree. I would rather always shoot for 9s and 10s or women that are striving to be so. Not just in looks, all around, because that's what I strive to be. That's what I feel I deserve. Why would I supplicate to anything less? Because I'm horny? Gtfo here lol. Your counter to this is that some men simply won't be able to get 10s. Guru, myself, and some others disagree with you, and that's where we get into your character because the problem is there, not with the world. Your attempts to lash out only prove our point.

I would rather go my whole life striving for what I want and failing than settling for less. To me fuucking a 6 or 7 even one time is settling. Sometimes I'm mistaken and find out later that a 9 is actually a wicked biitch with the moral compass of a nazi, putting her overall score down at a 4. but hey I'm shooting high and making moves accordingly, not picking out trolls because I think I can't do better.

Let me give you a personal example of what I meant by changing your reality to meet your expectations because you misunderstood. When you're trading stocks all you have to do is push the right keys at the right time. You can't force the market to go in your direction and that's where most traders fail. What you can do is learn the patterns of the market until you have an edge. The computer and the market didn't change but your account grows because you took the necessary steps to learn when to press which keys. Reality has changed to meet your expectations. The same applies to everything. The more time and attention you invest in improving yourself the lower your chances of failure.
 

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I'm not sure why you're speaking on behalf of OP but please quote what you feel I said in my post is attacking him. I've said lowering standards is a move of desperation because it is. It means you're guided by your diick to the point that you'll do less than what you feel you deserve. Like guru says when reality sets in you'll realize it was stupid, or like I said you'll call it your new norm.

I read what guru said and I disagree. I would rather always shoot for 9s and 10s or women that are striving to be so. Not just in looks, all around, because that's what I strive to be. That's what I feel I deserve. Why would I supplicate to anything less? Because I'm horny? Gtfo here lol. Your counter to this is that some men simply won't be able to get 10s. Guru, myself, and some others disagree with you, and that's where we get into your character because the problem is there, not with the world. Your attempts to lash out only prove our point.

I would rather go my whole life striving for what I want and failing than settling for less. To me fuucking a 6 or 7 even one time is settling. Sometimes I'm mistaken and find out later that a 9 is actually a wicked biitch with the moral compass of a nazi, putting her overall score down at a 4. but hey I'm shooting high and making moves accordingly, not picking out trolls because I think I can't do better.

Let me give you a personal example of what I meant by changing your reality to meet your expectations because you misunderstood. When you're trading stocks all you have to do is push the right keys at the right time. You can't force the market to go in your direction and that's where most traders fail. What you can do is learn the patterns of the market until you have an edge. The computer and the market didn't change but your account grows because you took the necessary steps to learn when to press which keys. Reality has changed to meet your expectations. The same applies to everything. The more time and attention you invest in improving yourself the lower your chances of failure.
I'm well aware that the majority of posters on sosuave only bang 9s and 10s. Bunch of regular Leo DiCaprios running around
 

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Am I the only one that can't lower my standard?

I just can't make a effort at all if the women is below my standard.
I become lazy af
It depends.

From the postings here, I'm inclined to believe that most if not all are purely based on the looks of women.

But those are plentiful, everywhere you look there are beautiful women walking around, but which one is special?

If she's fvckable and look wise just a 6 or 7 but has a great attitude, she's worth a fvcking 10.9

You take that 6 or 7, get a professional to doll her up, I guarantee you she'll be a 10.
 

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It depends.

From the postings here, I'm inclined to believe that most if not all are purely based on the looks of women.

But those are plentiful, everywhere you look there are beautiful women walking around, but which one is special?

If she's fvckable and look wise just a 6 or 7 but has a great attitude, she's worth a fvcking 10.9

You take that 6 or 7, get a professional to doll her up, I guarantee you she'll be a 10.
Completly agree.
 

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Good for you, now you're already better then 99% of the men in the world.
That hb rating is seriously getting ridiculous imo

worshiping a women because in their head they are quality because of their look.
 
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