Lowering standards for release.

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Your standards are probably higher than mine, as you're better looking and live in NYC, but I never bang women that aren't attractive to me. And even when I lower my standards, most guys on sosuave would pound in a heartbeat.

As I've gotten older, I've realized what I'm capable of. I don't believe that I can WILL 9s and 10s like Eye laughably suggested.

Life is what it is. Make the best of what you have to work with. Positive thinking is good, but it will only take you so far.
Good post. Another thing. Viewing other dudes in this way is self defeating. When i was younger i use to do this and figured out that its a frame killer. Not good for me subconsciously and you will carry it around.
Your doing your thing and as i posted there's nothing wrong with it. Just because a guys looks are what your mind is saying is better or his income or location doesn't mean his frame is stronger or better.
Could be the opposite. Ive seen this shyt with my own eyes. Millionaires can be cucks.
 
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Your standards are probably higher than mine, as you're better looking and live in NYC, but I never bang women that aren't attractive to me. And even when I lower my standards, most guys on sosuave would pound in a heartbeat.

As I've gotten older, I've realized what I'm capable of. I don't believe that I can WILL 9s and 10s like Eye laughably suggested.

Life is what it is. Make the best of what you have to work with. Positive thinking is good, but it will only take you so far.
I know men at the bottom of DNA pool LTR model-types repeatedly. They just build a quasi-celebrity status and seemly joined celebrity circles via their business, Instagram-ed their “friends,” and BOOM, now they are swimming in models.

Really there are no restrictions in what one can attain despite their genetic shortcomings. It's just a question of desire and what one is willing to do to get there.

I'm not advocating one should or should not do this. Rather, just lifting the veil of restrictions for anyone who chooses to.
 

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Your standards are probably higher than mine, as you're better looking and live in NYC, but I never bang women that aren't attractive to me. And even when I lower my standards, most guys on sosuave would pound in a heartbeat.

As I've gotten older, I've realized what I'm capable of. I don't believe that I can WILL 9s and 10s like @EyeOnThePrize laughably suggested.

Life is what it is. Make the best of what you have to work with. Positive thinking is good, but it will only take you so far.
You can't will them, but you can work on them as goals. I remember reading in that old book How To Seduce Women, "if you want to become a doctor and you go through all of the steps in the process, eventually you will become one" or something like that, then adding "and if you want to seduce beautiful women, by taking the steps and working at it, you will do that too." So it's more about personal willpower than willing someone else.

My problem in the past is backing into things or taking low-hanging fruit. I'm not saying I haven't been with some beautiful and amazing women. I most certainly have. But you know how it goes with the path of least resistance. This year I decided to recalibrate my goals and go after the women I truly want. (Kind of contradicts my earlier post but that was a slump buster, lol.) A couple of weeks ago I had one in the palm of my hand and I fumbled. Live and learn but it was worth taking the shot such, as it was.

I think most men - especially on Sosuave - don't realize their potential. Ross Perot said once that most people give up on the 1-yard line.
 

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I know men at the bottom of DNA pool LTR model-types repeatedly. They just build a quasi-celebrity status and seemly joined celebrity circles via their business, Instagram-ed their “friends,” and BOOM, now they are swimming in models.

Really there are no restrictions in what one can attain despite their genetic shortcomings. It's just a question of desire and what one is willing to do to get there.

I'm not advocating one should or should not do this. Rather, just lifting the veil of restrictions for anyone who chooses to.
I'm not a fake-ass b1tch, though. I've thought about trying to fake an online personality. Just can't do it. I'm willing to sacrifice women for it.

I have a strong frame. I.e no man or woman is going to push me around.

For instance, if you, guru, came to my place of living, you would be viewed as a Yankee. And rightly so. That isn't to say that you couldn't still get laid, just that you've entered my frame.
 

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I'm not a fake-ass b1tch, though. I've thought about trying to fake an online personality. Just can't do it. I'm willing to sacrifice women for it.

I have a strong frame. I.e no man or woman is going to push me around.

For instance, if you, guru, came to my place of living, you would be viewed as a Yankee. And rightly so. That isn't to say that you couldn't still get laid, just that you've entered my frame.
They’re not fake individuals. They are financially successful and do business with high profile individuals to whom they leverage as social proof.

One can say social proof in itself is fake as it fails to describe the individual outside of the social group. Irregardless, social proof is effective. Results in your desire (as long as you are not hurting others in the process) is what matters. All other reasoning to the contrary are ego rationals and thus excuses to fail.
 
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They’re not fake individuals. They are financially successful and do business with high profile individuals to whom they leverage as social proof.

One can say social proof in itself is fake as it fails to describe the individual outside of the social group. Irregardless, social proof is effective. Results in your desire (as long as you are not hurting others in the process) is what matters. All other reasoning to the contrary are ego rationals and thus excuses to fail.
No offense, but I think that anyone with a social media presence is insecure, unless for business marketing. I'm obviously a weird guy in that regard, but I'm comfortable with it.
 

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You can't will them, but you can work on them as goals. I remember reading in that old book How To Seduce Women, "if you want to become a doctor and you go through all of the steps in the process, eventually you will become one" or something like that, then adding "and if you want to seduce beautiful women, by taking the steps and working at it, you will do that too." So it's more about personal willpower than willing someone else.

My problem in the past is backing into things or taking low-hanging fruit. I'm not saying I haven't been with some beautiful and amazing women. I most certainly have. But you know how it goes with the path of least resistance. This year I decided to recalibrate my goals and go after the women I truly want. (Kind of contradicts my earlier post but that was a slump buster, lol.) A couple of weeks ago I had one in the palm of my hand and I fumbled. Live and learn but it was worth taking the shot such, as it was.

I think most men - especially on Sosuave - don't realize their potential. Ross Perot said once that most people give up on the 1-yard line.
You're so money and you don't even know it.
 

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They’re not fake individuals. They are financially successful and do business with high profile individuals to whom they leverage as social proof.

One can say social proof in itself is fake as it fails to describe the individual outside of the social group. Irregardless, social proof is effective. Results in your desire (as long as you are not hurting others in the process) is what matters. All other reasoning to the contrary are ego rationals and thus excuses to fail.
I reckon it depends on how bad you want to get laid.

I could definitely pull more women if I created a Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat. I get that. I choose not to.

From my experience, the extra lays weren't worth the added burden. That is, the constant distraction of it all. I was less happy when I had social media.
 

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No offense, but I think that anyone with a social media presence is insecure, unless for business marketing. I'm obviously a weird guy in that regard, but I'm comfortable with it.
To be clear, I don’t have social media. But I definitely would if I chose to, and not because some men in some region say it’s insecure (without rationale) to have a social media presence.

The deeper problem I have here with our discussion is your hidden narrative, which is:

“ If you’re not genetically blessed, then accept your lot, and don’t go after the women you truly want.”

This is wrong on many levels but I’ll keep it simple: walk out of your house and into any venue where there are model-type women, and you will see these women with men who are not genetically blessed. History is also replete with countless examples.

So you take your, “I will stay in my own lane but thank you” narrative and push it here, so some young men who have potential to be whoever they want to be can naively buy it and live their life handcuffed in squashed potential.
 

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One can say social proof in itself is fake as it fails to describe the individual outside of the social group.
That's exactly how I feel. I hate being around most people. I'm in leadership at my job, and with any woman I meet, so I try to avoid people the rest of the time. Work takes it out of me, women make me go crazy.

I'm an introvert. Fvck all this noise. Life is for pvssies.
 
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To be clear, I don’t have social media. But I definitely would if I chose to, and not because some men in some region say it’s insecure (without rationale) to have a social media presence.

The deeper problem I have here with our discussion is your hidden narrative, which is:

“ If you’re not genetically blessed, then accept your lot, and don’t go after the women you truly want.”

This is wrong on many levels but I’ll keep it simple: walk out of your house and into any venue where there are model-type women, and you will see these women with men who are not genetically blessed. History is also replete with countless examples.

So you take your, “I will stay in my own lane but thank you” narrative and push it here, so some young men who have potential to be whoever they want to be can naively buy it and live their life handcuffed in squashed potential.
You think those men get those women wet as very good looking one would?

Those to men seems to be the sugar daddy or provider type
 

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To be clear, I don’t have social media. But I definitely would if I chose to, and not because some men in some region say it’s insecure (without rationale) to have a social media presence.

The deeper problem I have here with our discussion is your hidden narrative, which is:

“ If you’re not genetically blessed, then accept your lot, and don’t go after the women you truly want.”

This is wrong on many levels but I’ll keep it simple: walk out of your house and into any venue where there are model-type women, and you will see these women with men who are not genetically blessed. History is also replete with countless examples.

So you take your, “I will stay in my own lane but thank you” narrative and push it here, so some young men who have potential to be whoever they want to be can naively buy it and live their life handcuffed in squashed potential.
I never said that I don't try to punch above my weight class, for all the readers, just that I'm not an unrealistic blowhard. By all means, get out there and try.

There are a bunch of posters running around with the "build it and they will come" approach, which I think is hurting new posters.
 

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@guru1000 but if you give me some new-age, the world is your oyster bullsh1t, I'll call you out, too.
 

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You think those men get those women wet as very good looking one would?

Those to men seems to be the sugar daddy or provider type
I’d say depends on the woman. Some women are purely physical for sexual desire. Others get wet on power. Others on social status. Many models actually need more than just looks to get it on as looks is already too commonplace in their circles. Whereas a 6 or 7 women might seek looks primarily as its not as commonplace for her.

One thing I can say for these men. They are fvcking life in the azz by going against their genetic lot. And for that I’d give them much respect.
I never said that I don't try to punch above my weight class, for all the readers, just that I'm not an unrealistic blowhard. By all means, get out there and try.

There are a bunch of posters running around with the "build it and they will come" approach, which I think is hurting new posters.
They do come if you build it correctly. The counterpoint is a guy like Bigdave who thinks he built it and yet they do not come, while completely oblivious to his social “retardation” which he did not build.
 

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They do come if you build it correctly. The counterpoint is a guy like Bigdave who thinks he built it and yet they do not come, while completely oblivious to his social “retardation” which he did not build.
And @Tenacity rip.

Just don't spout off self-help nonsense like the rest of these top posters. You used to be better than that gufru
 
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You know it quite funny, that I come here to fight for YOU (and others) to alleviate your (and their) inner restrictions which leads you to name calling.
 

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I’d say depends on the woman. Some women are purely physical for sexual desire. Others get wet on power. Others on social status. Many models actually need more than just looks to get it on as looks is already too commonplace in their circles. Whereas a 6 or 7 women might seek looks primarily as its not as commonplace for her.

One thing I can say for these men. They are fvcking life in the azz by going against their genetic lot. And for that I’d give them much respect.
I agree on this
Respect to those guys, i know if i where in place of some of them i would probably be forever single.
I would just hate it if a women would want to be with me for my $$$ only
 

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You know it quite funny, that I come here to fight for YOU (and others) to alleviate your (and their) inner restrictions which leads you to name calling.
I was just showing you how long I've been around. Don't get your panties in a twist
 

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I agree on this
Respect to those guys, i know if i where in place of some of them i would probably be forever single.
I would just hate it if a women would want to be with me for my $$$ only
Plenty of men with money who can’t find women. Some of them are in this forum.

It boils down to their knowing how to exploit their social status.

Money is not a deciding factor for LTRing models as it already so prevalent. It’s like my saying they can breathe and that’s what they are chosen.

These men are actually very smart as these women also assist them in building their brand within their own business lines.
 

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Plenty of men with money who can’t find women. Some of them are in this forum.

It boils down to their knowing how to exploit their social status.

Money is not a deciding factor for LTRing models as it already so prevalent. It’s like my saying they can breathe and that’s what they are chosen.
Not to mention, Mani/pedis, exfoliating cream etc. Life is rough.
 
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