"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lost my Job...

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Alright fellas,

I lost my job last Tuesday. I feel like ****. Worries about personal finances are getting into my head. Worrysome about my girl losing confidence in me. Head spinning in all directions. Any tips??
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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At least you have a girl. So your problem is easy to solve, get off the computer and look for a job!! And if you can't find one maybe you should look into further education, make yourself more employable.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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evesman said:
LOL. The answer's so obvious. But he's begging for sympathy instead.
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Good way to kick a man when he is down!!! Maybe he is looking for empathy instead of sympathy. Did that ever
cross your mind?

Improving education does not put food on the table right at the moment.

Jobs are hard to come by these days.

OP, hang in there my man and ignore the weak posters.
 
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I was unemployed for 7 months it was hell... i have more luck getting layed during that time than ever before and i dont know why...lol i was luck to find work.. but ow its hard to get layed again...lol
 
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use the time to get educated or acquire skills you didn't have time to before. Work out more. Don't necessarily strain your budget, but unemployment should float you through this limbo in the job market.

I lost my job in may and I had mixed feelings about it. On one hand, my financial goals were delayed, but on the other I had an entire free summer to do what I wanted. It was like a long vacation! Don't get me wrong it wasn't all fun, but the girlfriend supported me as did my friends so all in all it was as good as anyone can ask for. During that time I dedicated myself to reading A+ and N+ texts ( in anticipation of taking both tests), as well as some financial text and Machiavelli. I spent some time in the AM working dryland drills to get better at hockey, and spent a lot of the day in the library keeping my mind sharp. It was a full day's effort and that kept me sane.

Good luck getting back on your feet.
 
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synergy1 said:
use the time to get educated or acquire skills you didn't have time to before. Work out more. Don't necessarily strain your budget, but unemployment should float you through this limbo in the job market.

I lost my job in may and I had mixed feelings about it. On one hand, my financial goals were delayed, but on the other I had an entire free summer to do what I wanted. It was like a long vacation! Don't get me wrong it wasn't all fun, but the girlfriend supported me as did my friends so all in all it was as good as anyone can ask for. During that time I dedicated myself to reading A+ and N+ texts ( in anticipation of taking both tests), as well as some financial text and Machiavelli. I spent some time in the AM working dryland drills to get better at hockey, and spent a lot of the day in the library keeping my mind sharp. It was a full day's effort and that kept me sane.

Good luck getting back on your feet.
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i applied for ever job in my field in GA every single one. and it took 7 months...lol
 
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