"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lost my Job...

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Alright fellas,

I lost my job last Tuesday. I feel like ****. Worries about personal finances are getting into my head. Worrysome about my girl losing confidence in me. Head spinning in all directions. Any tips??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scion

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At least you have a girl. So your problem is easy to solve, get off the computer and look for a job!! And if you can't find one maybe you should look into further education, make yourself more employable.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SoldMySoul

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evesman said:
LOL. The answer's so obvious. But he's begging for sympathy instead.
Good way to kick a man when he is down!!! Maybe he is looking for empathy instead of sympathy. Did that ever
cross your mind?

Improving education does not put food on the table right at the moment.

Jobs are hard to come by these days.

OP, hang in there my man and ignore the weak posters.
 

DonGorgon

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I was unemployed for 7 months it was hell... i have more luck getting layed during that time than ever before and i dont know why...lol i was luck to find work.. but ow its hard to get layed again...lol
 

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use the time to get educated or acquire skills you didn't have time to before. Work out more. Don't necessarily strain your budget, but unemployment should float you through this limbo in the job market.

I lost my job in may and I had mixed feelings about it. On one hand, my financial goals were delayed, but on the other I had an entire free summer to do what I wanted. It was like a long vacation! Don't get me wrong it wasn't all fun, but the girlfriend supported me as did my friends so all in all it was as good as anyone can ask for. During that time I dedicated myself to reading A+ and N+ texts ( in anticipation of taking both tests), as well as some financial text and Machiavelli. I spent some time in the AM working dryland drills to get better at hockey, and spent a lot of the day in the library keeping my mind sharp. It was a full day's effort and that kept me sane.

Good luck getting back on your feet.
 

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synergy1 said:
use the time to get educated or acquire skills you didn't have time to before. Work out more. Don't necessarily strain your budget, but unemployment should float you through this limbo in the job market.

I lost my job in may and I had mixed feelings about it. On one hand, my financial goals were delayed, but on the other I had an entire free summer to do what I wanted. It was like a long vacation! Don't get me wrong it wasn't all fun, but the girlfriend supported me as did my friends so all in all it was as good as anyone can ask for. During that time I dedicated myself to reading A+ and N+ texts ( in anticipation of taking both tests), as well as some financial text and Machiavelli. I spent some time in the AM working dryland drills to get better at hockey, and spent a lot of the day in the library keeping my mind sharp. It was a full day's effort and that kept me sane.

Good luck getting back on your feet.
i applied for ever job in my field in GA every single one. and it took 7 months...lol
 
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