"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lost my Job...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Amazing said:Get a new job?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SoldMySoul
Master Don Juan
Good way to kick a man when he is down!!! Maybe he is looking for empathy instead of sympathy. Did that everevesman said:LOL. The answer's so obvious. But he's begging for sympathy instead.
cross your mind?
Improving education does not put food on the table right at the moment.
Jobs are hard to come by these days.
OP, hang in there my man and ignore the weak posters.
DonGorgon
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I lost my job in may and I had mixed feelings about it. On one hand, my financial goals were delayed, but on the other I had an entire free summer to do what I wanted. It was like a long vacation! Don't get me wrong it wasn't all fun, but the girlfriend supported me as did my friends so all in all it was as good as anyone can ask for. During that time I dedicated myself to reading A+ and N+ texts ( in anticipation of taking both tests), as well as some financial text and Machiavelli. I spent some time in the AM working dryland drills to get better at hockey, and spent a lot of the day in the library keeping my mind sharp. It was a full day's effort and that kept me sane.
Good luck getting back on your feet.
DonGorgon
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i applied for ever job in my field in GA every single one. and it took 7 months...lolsynergy1 said:use the time to get educated or acquire skills you didn't have time to before. Work out more. Don't necessarily strain your budget, but unemployment should float you through this limbo in the job market.
I lost my job in may and I had mixed feelings about it. On one hand, my financial goals were delayed, but on the other I had an entire free summer to do what I wanted. It was like a long vacation! Don't get me wrong it wasn't all fun, but the girlfriend supported me as did my friends so all in all it was as good as anyone can ask for. During that time I dedicated myself to reading A+ and N+ texts ( in anticipation of taking both tests), as well as some financial text and Machiavelli. I spent some time in the AM working dryland drills to get better at hockey, and spent a lot of the day in the library keeping my mind sharp. It was a full day's effort and that kept me sane.
Good luck getting back on your feet.