"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Lost my Job...
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Amazing said:Get a new job?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SoldMySoul
Master Don Juan
Good way to kick a man when he is down!!! Maybe he is looking for empathy instead of sympathy. Did that everevesman said:LOL. The answer's so obvious. But he's begging for sympathy instead.
cross your mind?
Improving education does not put food on the table right at the moment.
Jobs are hard to come by these days.
OP, hang in there my man and ignore the weak posters.
DonGorgon
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I lost my job in may and I had mixed feelings about it. On one hand, my financial goals were delayed, but on the other I had an entire free summer to do what I wanted. It was like a long vacation! Don't get me wrong it wasn't all fun, but the girlfriend supported me as did my friends so all in all it was as good as anyone can ask for. During that time I dedicated myself to reading A+ and N+ texts ( in anticipation of taking both tests), as well as some financial text and Machiavelli. I spent some time in the AM working dryland drills to get better at hockey, and spent a lot of the day in the library keeping my mind sharp. It was a full day's effort and that kept me sane.
Good luck getting back on your feet.
DonGorgon
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i applied for ever job in my field in GA every single one. and it took 7 months...lolsynergy1 said:use the time to get educated or acquire skills you didn't have time to before. Work out more. Don't necessarily strain your budget, but unemployment should float you through this limbo in the job market.
I lost my job in may and I had mixed feelings about it. On one hand, my financial goals were delayed, but on the other I had an entire free summer to do what I wanted. It was like a long vacation! Don't get me wrong it wasn't all fun, but the girlfriend supported me as did my friends so all in all it was as good as anyone can ask for. During that time I dedicated myself to reading A+ and N+ texts ( in anticipation of taking both tests), as well as some financial text and Machiavelli. I spent some time in the AM working dryland drills to get better at hockey, and spent a lot of the day in the library keeping my mind sharp. It was a full day's effort and that kept me sane.
Good luck getting back on your feet.