“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lose frame when im drunk

OlympicTim

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Whenever i get drunk i always lose my frame and mindset that i am the prize and she is not. I drunk text and just chase girls whenever i am drunk.

I feel like this is because my frame/mindset isnt strong enough.

Has anyone experienced this? I feel like i need to work on inner game more before i start going to the bar or does anyone have experience with this and have a quick fix?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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El Payaso

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Solution: don't get drunk.
 

BrainDamage92

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Are you kidding me my drunk frame is my best I just smile alot and grab them by the waist\ass (works best if the girl is in her drunk frame aswell) :D
 

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I've been there and that's why i only have one drink when im out with a girl for the first time.
 

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OlympicTim said:
Whenever i get drunk i always lose my frame and mindset that i am the prize and she is not. I drunk text and just chase girls whenever i am drunk.

I feel like this is because my frame/mindset isnt strong enough.

Has anyone experienced this? I feel like i need to work on inner game more before i start going to the bar or does anyone have experience with this and have a quick fix?
Normal. Alcohol can make any "performance" sloppy. Gaming is opening sets and to some extents it is "performing". Would drinking on the job make your work better or....slightly sloppy.

I'm referencing Julien from RSD again who games and recommends gaming sober. Because your truly doing it from your own "steam" so to speak. His point of view is imagine if you gamed sober consistently for a year....all without the crutch of alcohol.....how much would that consolidate your inner game? how socially skilled and comfortable would you become? how easy would cold approaching in any situation become?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you're deluded, man. You are worse when drunk. If you have any success at all, it's with women who are also drunks.
 

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The only frame you have when you are drunk is called "I'm an idiot"
 

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i lose frame when I'm high on weed. all substances affect us differently. i understand dude. it's not like you're screwing up big time but if this is a problem for you, just don't get drunk. it will make you stronger if you stay sober. work on that frame and never stop improving. good luck!
 
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