"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lose frame when im drunk

OlympicTim

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Whenever i get drunk i always lose my frame and mindset that i am the prize and she is not. I drunk text and just chase girls whenever i am drunk.

I feel like this is because my frame/mindset isnt strong enough.

Has anyone experienced this? I feel like i need to work on inner game more before i start going to the bar or does anyone have experience with this and have a quick fix?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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El Payaso

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Solution: don't get drunk.
 

BrainDamage92

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Are you kidding me my drunk frame is my best I just smile alot and grab them by the waist\ass (works best if the girl is in her drunk frame aswell) :D
 

Drummer93

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I've been there and that's why i only have one drink when im out with a girl for the first time.
 

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OlympicTim said:
Whenever i get drunk i always lose my frame and mindset that i am the prize and she is not. I drunk text and just chase girls whenever i am drunk.

I feel like this is because my frame/mindset isnt strong enough.

Has anyone experienced this? I feel like i need to work on inner game more before i start going to the bar or does anyone have experience with this and have a quick fix?
Normal. Alcohol can make any "performance" sloppy. Gaming is opening sets and to some extents it is "performing". Would drinking on the job make your work better or....slightly sloppy.

I'm referencing Julien from RSD again who games and recommends gaming sober. Because your truly doing it from your own "steam" so to speak. His point of view is imagine if you gamed sober consistently for a year....all without the crutch of alcohol.....how much would that consolidate your inner game? how socially skilled and comfortable would you become? how easy would cold approaching in any situation become?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you're deluded, man. You are worse when drunk. If you have any success at all, it's with women who are also drunks.
 

marmel75

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The only frame you have when you are drunk is called "I'm an idiot"
 

amazingswayze

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i lose frame when I'm high on weed. all substances affect us differently. i understand dude. it's not like you're screwing up big time but if this is a problem for you, just don't get drunk. it will make you stronger if you stay sober. work on that frame and never stop improving. good luck!
 
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