"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lose frame when im drunk

OlympicTim

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Whenever i get drunk i always lose my frame and mindset that i am the prize and she is not. I drunk text and just chase girls whenever i am drunk.

I feel like this is because my frame/mindset isnt strong enough.

Has anyone experienced this? I feel like i need to work on inner game more before i start going to the bar or does anyone have experience with this and have a quick fix?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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El Payaso

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Solution: don't get drunk.
 

BrainDamage92

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Are you kidding me my drunk frame is my best I just smile alot and grab them by the waist\ass (works best if the girl is in her drunk frame aswell) :D
 

Drummer93

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I've been there and that's why i only have one drink when im out with a girl for the first time.
 

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OlympicTim said:
Whenever i get drunk i always lose my frame and mindset that i am the prize and she is not. I drunk text and just chase girls whenever i am drunk.

I feel like this is because my frame/mindset isnt strong enough.

Has anyone experienced this? I feel like i need to work on inner game more before i start going to the bar or does anyone have experience with this and have a quick fix?
Normal. Alcohol can make any "performance" sloppy. Gaming is opening sets and to some extents it is "performing". Would drinking on the job make your work better or....slightly sloppy.

I'm referencing Julien from RSD again who games and recommends gaming sober. Because your truly doing it from your own "steam" so to speak. His point of view is imagine if you gamed sober consistently for a year....all without the crutch of alcohol.....how much would that consolidate your inner game? how socially skilled and comfortable would you become? how easy would cold approaching in any situation become?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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you're deluded, man. You are worse when drunk. If you have any success at all, it's with women who are also drunks.
 

marmel75

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The only frame you have when you are drunk is called "I'm an idiot"
 

amazingswayze

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i lose frame when I'm high on weed. all substances affect us differently. i understand dude. it's not like you're screwing up big time but if this is a problem for you, just don't get drunk. it will make you stronger if you stay sober. work on that frame and never stop improving. good luck!
 
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