You guys ever had girls that you know are interested, aka show all the signs, smile when they see you, eye contact, look at you in class, and when you look back and catch them looking at you they quickly look away and even seem a bit angry that you caught them? wtf is up with that
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
looking then looking away
- Thread starter Mjazz
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
shydude
Master Don Juan
you approach them at the end of the class 
shydude
Master Don Juan
thts not right tho... Maybe she was just lookin at you then you looked and she thought maybe now you think she likes you, when she doesnt... Idk man there are reasons i guess... but its weird ofcourse her being angry, if she really does have a thiing for you... so best way to find out is to approach her and etc.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"You guys ever had girls that you know are interested, aka show all the signs, smile when they see you, eye contact, look at you in class, and when you look back and catch them looking at you they quickly look away and even seem a bit angry that you caught them?"
Sounds like her "cute" way of playing off what she is really feeling about you, a mixed signal as you will.
Sounds like her "cute" way of playing off what she is really feeling about you, a mixed signal as you will.
yungahdubz
Senior Don Juan
I had something similar. A new girl recently joined my class, lets call her steph, and the girl who was meant to be showing her around the school, lets call her mary, happened to be one of my best mates. I always caught steph look at me in every class, to a point where i got slightly freaked out. Now i tell mary, and she obviously has to go and tell steph . Then steph got really pissed off with me, calling me vain and big headed every time i walked past her.
Who knows what goes on in the mind of a girl
. Then steph got really pissed off with me, calling me vain and big headed every time i walked past her.Who knows what goes on in the mind of a girl
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.