You guys ever had girls that you know are interested, aka show all the signs, smile when they see you, eye contact, look at you in class, and when you look back and catch them looking at you they quickly look away and even seem a bit angry that you caught them? wtf is up with that
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
looking then looking away
- Thread starter Mjazz
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
shydude
Master Don Juan
you approach them at the end of the class 
shydude
Master Don Juan
thts not right tho... Maybe she was just lookin at you then you looked and she thought maybe now you think she likes you, when she doesnt... Idk man there are reasons i guess... but its weird ofcourse her being angry, if she really does have a thiing for you... so best way to find out is to approach her and etc.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"You guys ever had girls that you know are interested, aka show all the signs, smile when they see you, eye contact, look at you in class, and when you look back and catch them looking at you they quickly look away and even seem a bit angry that you caught them?"
Sounds like her "cute" way of playing off what she is really feeling about you, a mixed signal as you will.
Sounds like her "cute" way of playing off what she is really feeling about you, a mixed signal as you will.
yungahdubz
Senior Don Juan
I had something similar. A new girl recently joined my class, lets call her steph, and the girl who was meant to be showing her around the school, lets call her mary, happened to be one of my best mates. I always caught steph look at me in every class, to a point where i got slightly freaked out. Now i tell mary, and she obviously has to go and tell steph . Then steph got really pissed off with me, calling me vain and big headed every time i walked past her.
Who knows what goes on in the mind of a girl
. Then steph got really pissed off with me, calling me vain and big headed every time i walked past her.Who knows what goes on in the mind of a girl
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.