"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mjazz

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You guys ever had girls that you know are interested, aka show all the signs, smile when they see you, eye contact, look at you in class, and when you look back and catch them looking at you they quickly look away and even seem a bit angry that you caught them? wtf is up with that
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mjazz

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yea thanks, but I talk and flirt with these girls reguarly, I just wanna know why they seem angry when you catch them looking at you
 

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thts not right tho... Maybe she was just lookin at you then you looked and she thought maybe now you think she likes you, when she doesnt... Idk man there are reasons i guess... but its weird ofcourse her being angry, if she really does have a thiing for you... so best way to find out is to approach her and etc.
 

Mjazz

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well its not really like angry, but kinda like "damn" , that is interesting though what you said, I think Im over analyzing this **** too much. thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"You guys ever had girls that you know are interested, aka show all the signs, smile when they see you, eye contact, look at you in class, and when you look back and catch them looking at you they quickly look away and even seem a bit angry that you caught them?"

Sounds like her "cute" way of playing off what she is really feeling about you, a mixed signal as you will.
 

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I had something similar. A new girl recently joined my class, lets call her steph, and the girl who was meant to be showing her around the school, lets call her mary, happened to be one of my best mates. I always caught steph look at me in every class, to a point where i got slightly freaked out. Now i tell mary, and she obviously has to go and tell steph :rolleyes:. Then steph got really pissed off with me, calling me vain and big headed every time i walked past her.
Who knows what goes on in the mind of a girl :confused:
 

Mjazz

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yea man its too weird, thanks for the help,
 

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Keep eye contact just a wee bit longer than she intends to. It's hard to gauge if you aren't in the moment, but it's much easier to see once you actually are in the position. Good luck!

-Sachiel, DJ in Training
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

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