"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mjazz

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You guys ever had girls that you know are interested, aka show all the signs, smile when they see you, eye contact, look at you in class, and when you look back and catch them looking at you they quickly look away and even seem a bit angry that you caught them? wtf is up with that
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mjazz

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yea thanks, but I talk and flirt with these girls reguarly, I just wanna know why they seem angry when you catch them looking at you
 

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thts not right tho... Maybe she was just lookin at you then you looked and she thought maybe now you think she likes you, when she doesnt... Idk man there are reasons i guess... but its weird ofcourse her being angry, if she really does have a thiing for you... so best way to find out is to approach her and etc.
 

Mjazz

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well its not really like angry, but kinda like "damn" , that is interesting though what you said, I think Im over analyzing this **** too much. thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"You guys ever had girls that you know are interested, aka show all the signs, smile when they see you, eye contact, look at you in class, and when you look back and catch them looking at you they quickly look away and even seem a bit angry that you caught them?"

Sounds like her "cute" way of playing off what she is really feeling about you, a mixed signal as you will.
 

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I had something similar. A new girl recently joined my class, lets call her steph, and the girl who was meant to be showing her around the school, lets call her mary, happened to be one of my best mates. I always caught steph look at me in every class, to a point where i got slightly freaked out. Now i tell mary, and she obviously has to go and tell steph :rolleyes:. Then steph got really pissed off with me, calling me vain and big headed every time i walked past her.
Who knows what goes on in the mind of a girl :confused:
 

Mjazz

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yea man its too weird, thanks for the help,
 

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Keep eye contact just a wee bit longer than she intends to. It's hard to gauge if you aren't in the moment, but it's much easier to see once you actually are in the position. Good luck!

-Sachiel, DJ in Training
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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