"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Looking for a wingman in NY

Corneille

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Hi !

I'm Corneille, I've come from France, 20 years old and I have sarged in Paris, I got my first num close only recently in day spu but I improve pretty fast, anyone on NY these times ? :)

Ps : I know I'm not in the right section but it's because this one is more visible !
Corneille
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In2theGame

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Corneille said:
Hi !

I'm Corneille, I've come from France, 20 years old and I have sarged in Paris, I got my first num close only recently in day spu but I improve pretty fast, anyone on NY these times ? :)

Ps : I know I'm not in the right section but it's because this one is more visible !
Corneille
Would of taken a chance to hang out but headed to a party tonight.
 

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@youngmack : I'm in manhattan, close to battery park, what about you ?
@In2theGame : No problem, there are other days in the week :)
 

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you 20 . you cant get in to the good :rockon: places yet. call me back when you turn 21
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Corneille

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I discovered the game only two months ago, I had some wingmen in france and they said I was motivated. I just want to improve. Anyone in Manhattan or around ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mantis Toboggan

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If you're coming off as annoying and needy via cyberspace, I can only guess that you'd be even more annoying in person.

Go to the Wingman Forum and shut up.
 

Corneille

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Thanks man I appreciate the comment. If you post something and that it always gets lower because of thread updates nobody will ever see it, that's why i'm "annoying and needy". If your only response to me is "shut up and move", then I guess I'm loosing my time here. I hope everybody doesn't guess as fast on this forum.
 

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Corneille said:
Thanks man I appreciate the comment. If you post something and that it always gets lower because of thread updates nobody will ever see it, that's why i'm "annoying and needy". If your only response to me is "shut up and move", then I guess I'm loosing my time here. I hope everybody doesn't guess as fast on this forum.

You bumped your own thread like 10 times. What do you expect me to say? "Thank you"?? It gets annoying after a while, wouldn't you agree?

Your post is getting lower because everyone has read it and no one wants to respond. Do you think bumping your thread 50 more times will help you?

There's a wingman forum. Use that.
 

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Ok, copy that. No one wants to respond or just those who aren't around, don't you think ? But anyway its sure that nobody will answer to me after that. So, sorry to have annoyed you with my case and thanks for the help
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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