"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Looking for a wingman in NY

Corneille

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Hi !

I'm Corneille, I've come from France, 20 years old and I have sarged in Paris, I got my first num close only recently in day spu but I improve pretty fast, anyone on NY these times ? :)

Ps : I know I'm not in the right section but it's because this one is more visible !
Corneille
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In2theGame

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Corneille said:
Hi !

I'm Corneille, I've come from France, 20 years old and I have sarged in Paris, I got my first num close only recently in day spu but I improve pretty fast, anyone on NY these times ? :)

Ps : I know I'm not in the right section but it's because this one is more visible !
Corneille
Would of taken a chance to hang out but headed to a party tonight.
 

Corneille

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@youngmack : I'm in manhattan, close to battery park, what about you ?
@In2theGame : No problem, there are other days in the week :)
 

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you 20 . you cant get in to the good :rockon: places yet. call me back when you turn 21
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Corneille

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I discovered the game only two months ago, I had some wingmen in france and they said I was motivated. I just want to improve. Anyone in Manhattan or around ?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you're coming off as annoying and needy via cyberspace, I can only guess that you'd be even more annoying in person.

Go to the Wingman Forum and shut up.
 

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Thanks man I appreciate the comment. If you post something and that it always gets lower because of thread updates nobody will ever see it, that's why i'm "annoying and needy". If your only response to me is "shut up and move", then I guess I'm loosing my time here. I hope everybody doesn't guess as fast on this forum.
 

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Corneille said:
Thanks man I appreciate the comment. If you post something and that it always gets lower because of thread updates nobody will ever see it, that's why i'm "annoying and needy". If your only response to me is "shut up and move", then I guess I'm loosing my time here. I hope everybody doesn't guess as fast on this forum.

You bumped your own thread like 10 times. What do you expect me to say? "Thank you"?? It gets annoying after a while, wouldn't you agree?

Your post is getting lower because everyone has read it and no one wants to respond. Do you think bumping your thread 50 more times will help you?

There's a wingman forum. Use that.
 

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Ok, copy that. No one wants to respond or just those who aren't around, don't you think ? But anyway its sure that nobody will answer to me after that. So, sorry to have annoyed you with my case and thanks for the help
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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