"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Looking for a wingman in NY

Corneille

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Hi !

I'm Corneille, I've come from France, 20 years old and I have sarged in Paris, I got my first num close only recently in day spu but I improve pretty fast, anyone on NY these times ? :)

Ps : I know I'm not in the right section but it's because this one is more visible !
Corneille
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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In2theGame

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Corneille said:
Hi !

I'm Corneille, I've come from France, 20 years old and I have sarged in Paris, I got my first num close only recently in day spu but I improve pretty fast, anyone on NY these times ? :)

Ps : I know I'm not in the right section but it's because this one is more visible !
Corneille
Would of taken a chance to hang out but headed to a party tonight.
 

Corneille

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@youngmack : I'm in manhattan, close to battery park, what about you ?
@In2theGame : No problem, there are other days in the week :)
 

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you 20 . you cant get in to the good :rockon: places yet. call me back when you turn 21
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Corneille

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I discovered the game only two months ago, I had some wingmen in france and they said I was motivated. I just want to improve. Anyone in Manhattan or around ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mantis Toboggan

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If you're coming off as annoying and needy via cyberspace, I can only guess that you'd be even more annoying in person.

Go to the Wingman Forum and shut up.
 

Corneille

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Thanks man I appreciate the comment. If you post something and that it always gets lower because of thread updates nobody will ever see it, that's why i'm "annoying and needy". If your only response to me is "shut up and move", then I guess I'm loosing my time here. I hope everybody doesn't guess as fast on this forum.
 

Mantis Toboggan

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Corneille said:
Thanks man I appreciate the comment. If you post something and that it always gets lower because of thread updates nobody will ever see it, that's why i'm "annoying and needy". If your only response to me is "shut up and move", then I guess I'm loosing my time here. I hope everybody doesn't guess as fast on this forum.

You bumped your own thread like 10 times. What do you expect me to say? "Thank you"?? It gets annoying after a while, wouldn't you agree?

Your post is getting lower because everyone has read it and no one wants to respond. Do you think bumping your thread 50 more times will help you?

There's a wingman forum. Use that.
 

Corneille

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Ok, copy that. No one wants to respond or just those who aren't around, don't you think ? But anyway its sure that nobody will answer to me after that. So, sorry to have annoyed you with my case and thanks for the help
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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