"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Looking for a wingman in NY

Corneille

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Hi !

I'm Corneille, I've come from France, 20 years old and I have sarged in Paris, I got my first num close only recently in day spu but I improve pretty fast, anyone on NY these times ? :)

Ps : I know I'm not in the right section but it's because this one is more visible !
Corneille
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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In2theGame

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Corneille said:
Hi !

I'm Corneille, I've come from France, 20 years old and I have sarged in Paris, I got my first num close only recently in day spu but I improve pretty fast, anyone on NY these times ? :)

Ps : I know I'm not in the right section but it's because this one is more visible !
Corneille
Would of taken a chance to hang out but headed to a party tonight.
 

Corneille

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@youngmack : I'm in manhattan, close to battery park, what about you ?
@In2theGame : No problem, there are other days in the week :)
 

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you 20 . you cant get in to the good :rockon: places yet. call me back when you turn 21
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Corneille

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I discovered the game only two months ago, I had some wingmen in france and they said I was motivated. I just want to improve. Anyone in Manhattan or around ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you're coming off as annoying and needy via cyberspace, I can only guess that you'd be even more annoying in person.

Go to the Wingman Forum and shut up.
 

Corneille

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Thanks man I appreciate the comment. If you post something and that it always gets lower because of thread updates nobody will ever see it, that's why i'm "annoying and needy". If your only response to me is "shut up and move", then I guess I'm loosing my time here. I hope everybody doesn't guess as fast on this forum.
 

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Corneille said:
Thanks man I appreciate the comment. If you post something and that it always gets lower because of thread updates nobody will ever see it, that's why i'm "annoying and needy". If your only response to me is "shut up and move", then I guess I'm loosing my time here. I hope everybody doesn't guess as fast on this forum.

You bumped your own thread like 10 times. What do you expect me to say? "Thank you"?? It gets annoying after a while, wouldn't you agree?

Your post is getting lower because everyone has read it and no one wants to respond. Do you think bumping your thread 50 more times will help you?

There's a wingman forum. Use that.
 

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Ok, copy that. No one wants to respond or just those who aren't around, don't you think ? But anyway its sure that nobody will answer to me after that. So, sorry to have annoyed you with my case and thanks for the help
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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