"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Looking for a wingman in NY

Corneille

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Hi !

I'm Corneille, I've come from France, 20 years old and I have sarged in Paris, I got my first num close only recently in day spu but I improve pretty fast, anyone on NY these times ? :)

Ps : I know I'm not in the right section but it's because this one is more visible !
Corneille
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In2theGame

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Corneille said:
Hi !

I'm Corneille, I've come from France, 20 years old and I have sarged in Paris, I got my first num close only recently in day spu but I improve pretty fast, anyone on NY these times ? :)

Ps : I know I'm not in the right section but it's because this one is more visible !
Corneille
Would of taken a chance to hang out but headed to a party tonight.
 

Corneille

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@youngmack : I'm in manhattan, close to battery park, what about you ?
@In2theGame : No problem, there are other days in the week :)
 

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you 20 . you cant get in to the good :rockon: places yet. call me back when you turn 21
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Corneille

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I discovered the game only two months ago, I had some wingmen in france and they said I was motivated. I just want to improve. Anyone in Manhattan or around ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you're coming off as annoying and needy via cyberspace, I can only guess that you'd be even more annoying in person.

Go to the Wingman Forum and shut up.
 

Corneille

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Thanks man I appreciate the comment. If you post something and that it always gets lower because of thread updates nobody will ever see it, that's why i'm "annoying and needy". If your only response to me is "shut up and move", then I guess I'm loosing my time here. I hope everybody doesn't guess as fast on this forum.
 

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Corneille said:
Thanks man I appreciate the comment. If you post something and that it always gets lower because of thread updates nobody will ever see it, that's why i'm "annoying and needy". If your only response to me is "shut up and move", then I guess I'm loosing my time here. I hope everybody doesn't guess as fast on this forum.

You bumped your own thread like 10 times. What do you expect me to say? "Thank you"?? It gets annoying after a while, wouldn't you agree?

Your post is getting lower because everyone has read it and no one wants to respond. Do you think bumping your thread 50 more times will help you?

There's a wingman forum. Use that.
 

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Ok, copy that. No one wants to respond or just those who aren't around, don't you think ? But anyway its sure that nobody will answer to me after that. So, sorry to have annoyed you with my case and thanks for the help
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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