long distance break up (method poll)

[dipset_mafia]

OKAY

when an "in person" break up is geographically impossible. which of the following methods are the best to use...

because every situation calls for different action, the situation will be:

You're dating an attractive girl, (hb8) she's annoying though, and the sex isn't that great. You've been seeing her for 2-3 months. You've gone home for christmas/new years and you really need to break it off. You allegedly took her virginity.

how would you proceed? . . .

email, phone, text message, msn/chat, letter,

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Why break-up? If she's not physically close to you then she can't see you dating other women.

 

[dipset_mafia]

I have to go back to school after the holidays

 

[Shiftkey]

Do it in person when you go back to school. In the meantime, date other women.

You really should have done it before you left.

 

[dipset_mafia]

I can't do it in person when i come home.

well I could, but the sooner the better!

it might be the least don juanish thing i've ever done, but i'm getting back with my ex... who doesn't know about new girl... i was considering doing it when i got back, but I mean, she's going to start getting a clue pretty soon, i haven't been very conversational with her lately.

 

[Shiftkey]

Well if you won't do it in person, the phone would be the next best. How would you rather get dumped? I'd be insulted with anything other than in person.

 

[dipset_mafia]

thats true....

man, i would've done it before if i'd known i was going to get back with the ex...

ex came over the night before i left for home...

so phone it is... think its a good idea to mention that i'm gettin back with ex? or what? i'm just wondering what i can tell this girl.. i mean im gonna have to tell her straight up, but i'm putting it off because i can't find the words...

 

[Shiftkey]

Once again, think about how you would want to be dumped.

I would want to be given the reasons why so that I could improve myself if necessary and try to correct any problems for future relationships.

 

[dipset_mafia]

you're right.

UGH.

I just don't want to commit 20 minutes of my life to this phone call...

hopefully i say my piece and she hangs up. best case scenario

worst case scenario she goes insane and firebombs my house..... women...

 

[The Nice Guy is Gone]

any form other than conversing means you are chickesh**. I don't even like the phone idea, but writing it down makes you a pu$$y.

 

[dipset_mafia]

believe me, ofcourse i'm gonna phone her

i put a poll up so that people would click the damn link, so tired of posting and getting nonresponse...

that and i was half hoping that someone would be like.. "ya emails are okay, " and then have everyone agree, hahaha, just to make things easier..

but ya, i'm going to call her and 'converse' about it.. i'm just really not looking forward to it... not at all...